How is what my lover and I do in the privacy of our own bedroom "disregard for other people", but your determination to deny us recognition is not?
I would contend, in all seriousness, that if your emotional wellbeing is THAT threatened by what strangers do in the privacy of their own homes, that you require some sort of therapy. This is not a flame, this is a sincere suggestion. Such emotional vulnerability based on the private lives of others is not healthy.
Sure you could... if there was anything THAT disturbing about it. I suspect, strongly, that your reason for failing to explain just what is so disturbing about it is based more on the fact that you CAN'T, rather than decorum issues.
Pyromaniacs cause harm to the property and lives of others, potentially killing people. How is this remotely comparable to the acts of consenting homosexuals?
Um.. I never said pyromania was mundane... I'm comparing examples where the outward effects are the same.
Eating cows tongue, I think its disgusting, but it doesn't harm me, therefore, I have no right to interfere in anyone's dietry habbits. If thats what they want, then let them.
God made us sexual (Genesis 1-2). We are to follow the law of love in sexu@l matters, as in all else. Romans 13:8-10: "Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. The commandments, 'You shall not commit adultery; You shall not murder; You shall not steal; you shall not covet'; and any other
commandment, are summed up in this word, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' Loves does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law."
James also tells us what love is..doing no harm and state it fulfills the law.
That is how we now judge sin, will this behavior harm others. Certainly, the act of homosexuality isn't harmful in itself. The bigger question is does it harm soceity, which can be argued in many ways, such as marriage. Overall, I think it only harms when people allow it or agendas are taught.
This can be true of all sex, gay of not.
It can be reasonably concluded that the sexual ethic of traditional Christianity is an artificial, repressive and legalistic ethic which ignores both our God-given natures and the law of love. Thus, this ethic is an abusive ethic in its basic nature which hurts rather than heals people.
Even with all tradition had done, it is an ineffective ethic which does not even accomplish its intended purpose of sexual repression, but rather drives sexual expression underground and into the shadows of ignorance, guilt and mass confusion. It is an ethic which is based on misinterpretation and false application of the biblical text and on cultural and philosophical biases imported into Christian teaching from other sources not biblical.
Here is where I can accept gay marriage. Gayness...is not going away.
To only drive it underground would result in perverted behavior. Most of
the wild immoral behavior by gays is due to hiding in the closet. However, with more people accepting gays, many now live open normal lives.
Homosexuality is the same. It doesn't harm you in any way what consenting adults do, so just butt out and mind your own business.
Even if I was against homosexuality, that's the point. What two people do is not my business as long as they don't break laws. We are not a theocracy.
And heres the kicker... both cows tongues and homosexuality and the disgustingness or otherwise of them is a purely subjective VALUE JUDGMENT, and NOT an empirical objective fact.