So I was talking to my best friend who was not raised in the church, and I was talking about the guy I like. She was encouraging me to call him up and ask him to hang out, just him and me and not the rest of our friends. I was really hesitant to do that, and when she asked why, I said, "Because in our faith, he's really supposed to take the lead like that. Not me." She got a little frustrated with me and said, "So you're just going to wait around then?" I told her I was still interacting with him and spending time with him in our group of friends, but it's not my place to call him up and invite him out like that. Of course she said, "This is the year 2010!"
So what do you think? Should the man take the lead in relationships? If so, how much? Or can women make the first move toward more than friendship, even in Christian relationships?
So what do you think? Should the man take the lead in relationships? If so, how much? Or can women make the first move toward more than friendship, even in Christian relationships?