Don't me mad because you hate my way of life.
Where did I say I hate your way of life? This is bordering on outright flaming. I actually quite like America and the American way of life. I just find the electoral college is awful. Similarly, Canada's first past the post parliamentary system is ALSO awful.
The electoral system prevents states from having power over eachother. A popular vote method gives the power to regions of the country with the most people.
Except the "states" are largely arbitrary designation and borders decided in centuries past. A citizen from NYC has vastly different needs and desires than someone from Albany.
The current method gives power of certain states over others. Again, a person from Wyoming has massive power over someone from California - because a Wyoming resident's votes is worth 4 times what the Californian's is.
Furthermore, since those areas are going proportional as well (since it's striclty about the population), it's highly unlikely the highly populated regions will vote as blocks. Particularly since the most likely areas to vote as blocks (highly urbanized areas) make up less than 30% of the population. Heck, by any reasonable interpretation, it's likely less than 20% of the US population (in proper cities, at least 300-400K people).
I'd also argue that while there are density advantages to campaigning in urban areas, those areas also have the highest concentrations of non-voters (including dissatisfied peoples who don't vote, and illegals who can't).
In every election but the election for President, we elect people who represent only us. In a Presidential election we get to vote for the representative of another person. In this regard the Presidential election is unique and it should have a unique structure around it. Hense the electoral college.
You're aware that is just as good an explanation for, "The Presidential election is unique and should have a unique structure. Therefore, we will continue with our process of electing magic hamsters to represent us and pick our leader with their magic noses of truth-sniffing".
You still elect someone that represents you... the President. The President is the person that represents you, as an American, as the Head of State.
So again - are you going to admit that you believe certain Americans are more equal than others, or are you ready to admit the EC is a stupid system? Or do you have another explanation for why, despite their vote having 4 times the weight of a Californian's, a Wyoming resident is NOT valued more highly in the electoral scheme?