Should I come clean to my husband?

[returntosender]

Married or not, if he's not the father he is not the father..
Also, unless the law is changed you can put any name you want for the father on the birth cert. Paper work for birth cert. is offered in the hospital and can be done by the mother alone. Doesn't mean it can't be contested later on.

 

[Ignatius the Kiwi]

Assuming this isn't a troll, I think your husband has every right to divorce you and leave you to look after the children. Good luck doing that on your own because any man of fortitude wouldn't submit to this sort of cuckoldry. So maybe for your own benefit you should keep lying to your husband. You obviously don't respect him or love him, so why not continue using him?

 

[Pavel Mosko]

Married or not, if he's not the father he is not the father..
Also, unless the law is changed you can put any name you want for the father on the birth cert. Paper work for birth cert. is offered in the hospital and can be done by the mother alone. Doesn't mean it can't be contested later on.

There is another consideration, if this is real.

What she is doing is actually fraud.... Fraud normally is thought of as something done by strangers... But in this case, it is misleading for financial gain etc. because she has admitted that her husband might divorce her and is considering the deception with lieing etc.. So this ends up being one of those cases, with a wife like that who needs an enemy?

But in this case, hopefully this is just shaggy dog story post... if not feel sorry for hubby.

 

[Contrite Spirit]

Okay, I'm new here. But this is ridiculous. Was I supposed to check my brain at the door when I signed on? Between this and the person who got shot in the head by a demon, I just don't know.

I thought this was a forum for intelligent exchanges between people of faith. And I see that in many areas it is. But just because one is a Christian doesn't mean that we should allow people to make fools of us.

 

[JohnDB]

There is another consideration, if this is real.

What she is doing is actually fraud.... Fraud normally is thought of as something done by strangers... But in this case, it is misleading for financial gain etc. because she has admitted that her husband might divorce her and is considering the deception with lieing etc.. So this ends up being one of those cases, with a wife like that who needs an enemy?

But in this case, hopefully this is just shaggy dog story post... if not feel sorry for hubby.

I would add that with a wife like this that it's no small wonder that he has anxiety issues...she is definitely a cause for them.

If this behavior and attitude is any indication...she is directly responsible for many of his anxieties.

 

[JohnDB]

Okay, I'm new here. But this is ridiculous. Was I supposed to check my brain at the door when I signed on? Between this and the person who got shot in the head by a demon, I just don't know.

I thought this was a forum for intelligent exchanges between people of faith. And I see that in many areas it is. But just because one is a Christian doesn't mean that we should allow people to make fools of us.

Oh I dare say that this is the internet and as such is a source of anonymity for people to post up all kinds of garbage. Even going to the extreme of complaining about anything that isn't perfectly politically correct.

 

[Michie]

Okay, I'm new here. But this is ridiculous. Was I supposed to check my brain at the door when I signed on? Between this and the person who got shot in the head by a demon, I just don't know.

I thought this was a forum for intelligent exchanges between people of faith. And I see that in many areas it is. But just because one is a Christian doesn't mean that we should allow people to make fools of us.

Yeah but unfortunately people will be willing to swallow anything for their entertainment.

 

[JohnDB]

Yeah but unfortunately people will be willing to swallow anything for their entertainment.

Yeah but at this point in quarantine I'm good with some entertainment...

I'm soooo bored.

I'd love to go back to work and my friends have been asking for me too. But I also know that I would most definitely get the virus and lose all sense of taste and smell. And for someone who loves to make gourmet food...

 

[Michie]

Yeah but at this point in quarantine I'm good with some entertainment...

I'm soooo bored.

I'd love to go back to work and my friends have been asking for me too. But I also know that I would most definitely get the virus and lose all sense of taste and smell. And for someone who loves to make gourmet food...

Well entertainment should not be based on blatant lies in a forum where honest Christian advice is asked and given. Not outlandish stories for fun.

 

[JohnDB]

Well entertainment should not be based on blatant lies.

Of course you are right...

But I'm guessing that the number of trolls increase with no such moral compunction as well because of boredom.

 

[Michie]

Of course you are right...

But I'm guessing that the number of trolls increase with no such moral compunction as well because of boredom.

That’s true. Unfortunately, trolling seems to be a constant for a lot of Christian forums. Entertaining this stuff is not something that seems to fit in with Christianity. The post attacks things on several levels that Christians claim to be sacred.

 

[GOD Shines Forth!]

Entertaining this stuff is not something that seems to fit in with Christianity.

True, but the Elaborate Scenario Troll gets web HITS. What are we on now, page SIX? It works, so every website with a comments section has them (for they are Legion).

 

[Lost4words]

I vote to close this thread...

 

[Michie]

True, but the Elaborate Scenario Troll gets web HITS. What are we on now, page SIX? It works, so every website with a comments section has them (for they are Legion).

Yes... that’s all I’ll say.

 

[JacksBratt]

 

[GirdYourLoins]

where are we now? Liar, adulteress, fraudster (defrauding husband) and I dont know wheat crime it would be in US to deliberately put someones name on the birth certificate when you KNOW they are not the father.
Or troll.
Either way is this not a person who needs to repent and find Jesus?

 

[mmksparbud]

I vote to close this thread...

You go bite them on the hiney first---don't forget your ladder!

 

[Lost4words]

I dont need a ladder! I can jump! At least 6 inches...

 

[Tone]

This person certainly did succeed in bringing it out of some folks.

 

[April_Rose]

I vote to close this thread...

I second that. This whole entire thread has gone here.