Okay, I know this is my first post, but hear me out. I am 31 and am struggling with my sexuality. Not am I gay or not, cause I am a very much attracted to women.
I remember from as early as five (when I saw my first Playboy) being awestruck from a womans body. As a kid, I couldn't wait to find a girl that was 18. I have never had a real girlfriend (the kind you mess around with). My first kiss was a hooker in Mexico at age 19. It's tough being virtually skill-less with the opposite sex at 19 and even more so at 31. I was a shy kid who couldn't let go of mama's skirt when she dropped me off at kindergarden. I never got to experience a first love, a teenage love, dates, school dances, love notes, (all the stuff that I imagine everyone else goes through, at least on TV). Sure, there were girls I had a crush on, but I hadn't the nerve to express it or act on it. I know there are no time machines to go back and relive my life. I honestly would put all my hope that God would supply me the girl if I just prayed enough. Well, here I am and I am loosing my faith over this because nothing has turned up. I don't want to live my life this way and look back when I am in a nursing home at all the things I missed out on.
I remember going to Sunday school for the first time. We were all sitting on the floor and I scooted back all the way to the wall and almost behind the upright piano.
I remember from as early as five (when I saw my first Playboy) being awestruck from a womans body. As a kid, I couldn't wait to find a girl that was 18. I have never had a real girlfriend (the kind you mess around with). My first kiss was a hooker in Mexico at age 19. It's tough being virtually skill-less with the opposite sex at 19 and even more so at 31. I was a shy kid who couldn't let go of mama's skirt when she dropped me off at kindergarden. I never got to experience a first love, a teenage love, dates, school dances, love notes, (all the stuff that I imagine everyone else goes through, at least on TV). Sure, there were girls I had a crush on, but I hadn't the nerve to express it or act on it. I know there are no time machines to go back and relive my life. I honestly would put all my hope that God would supply me the girl if I just prayed enough. Well, here I am and I am loosing my faith over this because nothing has turned up. I don't want to live my life this way and look back when I am in a nursing home at all the things I missed out on.
I remember going to Sunday school for the first time. We were all sitting on the floor and I scooted back all the way to the wall and almost behind the upright piano.