Fantine, unfortunately there is only one Mass available once a week, because there is no priest in residence at our parish. The next closest parish is about 40 minutes further away (it already takes almost 30 minutes to get to the one closest to us), and their situation is the same as ours. No priest. I am still pretty amazed that there aren't more Catholic churches around here, since the population is heavily Hispanic/Latino. But there aren't...LOTS of 'free worship' churches. Whatever that is.
Neal, I would love to do so...but I don't think they will tear down the building and start over just for me.
What makes it even more disappointing is that the original church was one of the gorgeous old mission style buildings...but it got too small or whatever and now they use it for faith formation and such...and they built the new modern monstrosity next door to it.
As far as the music...I doubt I could get anywhere with that, either. As I said, the parish is relatively small, and I'm sure that if someone with more talent were available and willing, they would have the job. God bless the cantor...she truly does her best.
But, we are very fortunate that the actual celebration of the Mass is beautifully done, no hanky panky, liturgical 'dancers', or any of that nonsense. In fact, if I close my eyes through the whole Mass, I could pretend I'm in St. Mary's...except for the music. Really...I had to warn the kids the first time we took them, and threaten dire consequences if they started laughing. It was that bad.