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How have you dealt with sexual disappointment? That might be either you or your spouse who expected something more.
How have you dealt with sexual disappointment? That might be either you or your spouse who expected something more.
I have read and read and read.
We went to marriage counseling.
The online sex therapist was tried but we didn't do more than one session.
That depends on the reason for the lack of intimacy. If it is due to childhood sexual abuse (which at least 20% of girls experience) then any sexual contact or innuendo can be very hurtful. Counseling that covers that area can be like pouring salt into an open wound.Start off by thinking about sex as the most selfless thing you can do for your spouse, so if you start out by being entirely selfless, it usually pays off at some point with greater mutual satisfaction.
SMH??? What does that mean?SMH...wow.
W, this forum is for singles to ask us old married folk about marriage. So unless you are asking questions, this is not the place for your comments.wow.
That assumes the spouse wants satisfaction. It won't work for someone that has spent years devoiding themselves of any hint of "carnal desire."Start off by thinking about sex as the most selfless thing you can do for your spouse, so if you start out by being entirely selfless, it usually pays off at some point with greater mutual satisfaction
That is because of this verse which precedes that:Paul's advice was: "those who have wives should be as though they had none;" 1cor7:29
So do you still "avoid any situation that may cause [you] to be interested in sex;" even with your wife? If you say you should act like you have no wife, you should.When I was single I tried to avoid any situation that may cause me to be interested in sex. That could mean to avoid going to the beach if people there have very little clothing on.
So Mary was not a virgin because God commanded her to have sex with Joseph?Sex is COMMANDED between spouses
If she didn't have sex with Joseph after the birth of our Lord, yes, she would have sinned; and he would have sinned as well.So Mary was not a virgin because God commanded her to have sex with Joseph?