I read in a magazine one time that most women don't understand that there are times a man doesn't want intimacy and a time-consuming consumation.
@ToBeBlessed
I am not sure if I understand your above statement correctly but I think I know what you are trying to say. Every man needs sometimes time and space only for himself without disruption by others like family, kids, wife or friends. I compare that to the need of a woman to talk about her worries with their best friend, not to find a solution in the first place but rather to channel her emotions so she can calm down again. We men aren't able to handle the same amount of emotions like women do on a regular basis. So we need time to put some daylight between oneself and all the things that trouble us. Otherwise we will feel overloaded and overrunned which can lead to aggression and even violence against our social environment. The best thing a woman can do to help her man, boyfriend or husband to get over this time is just to let him know that she really loves him, has trust in his decisions, that she respects him and never would try to make him look ridiculous in front of his friends, colleague and family and to give him the time he needs to calm down again. That's all a man need.
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