So for the past 2+ years I have been conflicted with one thing that keeps repeating itself in multiple facets in my life.
Well the big issue is trusting God.
At first I thought it was directly dealing with how people treated me badly, used me and abused me, then tossed me out like I meant nothing. When this would happen, I got angry at God. I was mad because I would always ask got to guide my steps in dealing with them. So when it got bad I would blame God for not protecting me or warning me. This happened with 3 relationship and multiple friendships.
After much hurt and anger I started to look deeper and figured out for these situations to mirror each other so closely there must be a bigger issue at hand.
Then I realized it was my lack of trust in God. The way I would flip on him for what others have done.
So I went to him, we spoke and he clarified many things for me. He even showed me some of my feelings were valid and went further to make promises to me and confirmed it through multiple sources.
So I was beginning to trust once again, but then another situation occurred with strangers and even in this situation the other parties lied, deceived and falsified statements that harmed my life and yet these individuals got away with it just like all the rest.
This then reset all the anger I had toward God. All the same doubts, anger and questions came back. "Where are you? Where is the protection? Why do you keep letting these ill intended people to get away with the wicked things they do.
I'm not saying I am a saint but in each of these situations I was respectful, kind and approached with Christ-like love.
Now God has promised me that he is going to deal with all of these people. Told me to trust be still and be patient. He promised "You will get everything you have asked for and more.
Now my bid issue keeps arising because the more I trust the more I feel let down by him because for the past 2+ years he has not kept one of his promises.
So I'm here asking anyone. How do you trust when the one you want to trust does nothing. This has caused me much unhappiness and stress. I loved my relationship with God but now I feel I don't have one with him. I am still trying to have one with him but I find it hard to trust God because I feel he has lied to me.
I know they say he does not lie, but the reality that is my life has proven otherwise.
How do I stay with him/God, when he is the source of my pain, anger, frustration and distrust?
Sorry for the long story.
Well the big issue is trusting God.
At first I thought it was directly dealing with how people treated me badly, used me and abused me, then tossed me out like I meant nothing. When this would happen, I got angry at God. I was mad because I would always ask got to guide my steps in dealing with them. So when it got bad I would blame God for not protecting me or warning me. This happened with 3 relationship and multiple friendships.
After much hurt and anger I started to look deeper and figured out for these situations to mirror each other so closely there must be a bigger issue at hand.
Then I realized it was my lack of trust in God. The way I would flip on him for what others have done.
So I went to him, we spoke and he clarified many things for me. He even showed me some of my feelings were valid and went further to make promises to me and confirmed it through multiple sources.
So I was beginning to trust once again, but then another situation occurred with strangers and even in this situation the other parties lied, deceived and falsified statements that harmed my life and yet these individuals got away with it just like all the rest.
This then reset all the anger I had toward God. All the same doubts, anger and questions came back. "Where are you? Where is the protection? Why do you keep letting these ill intended people to get away with the wicked things they do.
I'm not saying I am a saint but in each of these situations I was respectful, kind and approached with Christ-like love.
Now God has promised me that he is going to deal with all of these people. Told me to trust be still and be patient. He promised "You will get everything you have asked for and more.
Now my bid issue keeps arising because the more I trust the more I feel let down by him because for the past 2+ years he has not kept one of his promises.
So I'm here asking anyone. How do you trust when the one you want to trust does nothing. This has caused me much unhappiness and stress. I loved my relationship with God but now I feel I don't have one with him. I am still trying to have one with him but I find it hard to trust God because I feel he has lied to me.
I know they say he does not lie, but the reality that is my life has proven otherwise.
How do I stay with him/God, when he is the source of my pain, anger, frustration and distrust?
Sorry for the long story.