I'm not being judgemental I'm stating a fact. You have a boyfriend that is hang on to you despite the fact that you considered building a relationship with someone else even though marriage was brought up. To me that is being wide open so in love with a person that you don't see the red flags. From his prospective he should see the red flags in the relationship. It's crazy that he doesn't but not crazy in a bad way crazy in a way that when he finds that right woman he's going to look back at this like "man I was crazy for that."
As for the pastor I wouldn't say I'm being judgemental I will say I'm just calling him what he is.
“7:18 A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.
7:19 Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire.
7:20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.
7:21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.”
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“7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.”
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“5:2 Feed the flock of God which is among you, taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind;
5:3 Neither as being lords over God's heritage, but being ensamples to the flock.”
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I could write a book on biblical reasons on why this man shouldn't be in the pulpit. He is abusing the word of God. And if I am sinning by thinking what the information you gave me surely leads to then I am sorry. I hate when people pick on the weak and I hate it even more when they do so and use God as a tool in their sin especially when that person is a man of God. In fact if I knew your denomination and church I would certainly report him to his elder pastors. I've saw a story where a man tricked women who were married into having sex with him
this man is doing the same thing.