I know that this is mostly a positive place and this is a serious subject,but i need all the advice i can get,especially from those who are experienced and also will look at this with god and her spirit as first priority.
I have 3 children
my youngest is 7,my oldest 19,and then there's my middle child Charlotte shes 15
and from day one she was ray of sunshine,loved playing in the sand and dressing up as a princess and going to children's church every Sunday,however there was always something a bit off.she seemed to have a morbid curiosity from a young age,she was around 8 when she would bring me a dead birds or squirrels she had found while playing outside and insisted we give them a funeral in our backyard.not that uncommon at that age i guess ,she didn't know any better.but things progressed.At the age of 10 she started saving up her money to buy clothes from hot topic and started dressing in all black kind of goth like.At the age of 13 i was putting laundry in her drawers while she was sleeping over at her cousin's house and i found cds from bands she had asked me to go to concerts of like Marilyn Manson,slayer,(which i of course refused) a journal with creepy drawings,and magazines about horror movies.
shes only gotten worse despite all attempts to help her.her friends are just as bad,in fact some of them are in this local band that really worries me!she even helps them write songs or set up equipment for their shows sometimes.
i didn't have any problem like this at all with my oldest.and my little one is so impressionable and looks up to her.
i'd love any advice on this subject, especially what to do about the band shes getting involved with(i wish you knew why i found this band so disturbing).id do most anything to lead my baby back to the god fearing ways i raised her with! god bless.
I have 3 children
my youngest is 7,my oldest 19,and then there's my middle child Charlotte shes 15
and from day one she was ray of sunshine,loved playing in the sand and dressing up as a princess and going to children's church every Sunday,however there was always something a bit off.she seemed to have a morbid curiosity from a young age,she was around 8 when she would bring me a dead birds or squirrels she had found while playing outside and insisted we give them a funeral in our backyard.not that uncommon at that age i guess ,she didn't know any better.but things progressed.At the age of 10 she started saving up her money to buy clothes from hot topic and started dressing in all black kind of goth like.At the age of 13 i was putting laundry in her drawers while she was sleeping over at her cousin's house and i found cds from bands she had asked me to go to concerts of like Marilyn Manson,slayer,(which i of course refused) a journal with creepy drawings,and magazines about horror movies.
shes only gotten worse despite all attempts to help her.her friends are just as bad,in fact some of them are in this local band that really worries me!she even helps them write songs or set up equipment for their shows sometimes.
i didn't have any problem like this at all with my oldest.and my little one is so impressionable and looks up to her.
i'd love any advice on this subject, especially what to do about the band shes getting involved with(i wish you knew why i found this band so disturbing).id do most anything to lead my baby back to the god fearing ways i raised her with! god bless.