On May 16th my daughter (believed in God only when everything was going right in her life) recited the sinners prayer with me. She had been very lonely and stressed and I believe she really realized that her way simply wasn't working. I believe with all my heart that she was sincere - she was crying and didn't know why and for her to actually recite the prayer was a huge thing for her (initially she said that she was going to feel stupid - but she did it). We had a wonderful conversation and she asked some very pertinent questions about what it means to be a Christian, asked about drinking, tithing etc. I went to bed that night praising God over and over. I kept thinking - did that really happen? did my daughter really give her heart to the Lord? All I could think about was that now she was going to heaven when she dies - to be with the Lord. I was so thankful and happy.
Since then, she has done nothing. Gets upset with me if I mention anything about christianity, church, etc. I gave her a bible - it is untouched on the credenza. She won't talk about that night - when I bring it up she tells me not to make her regret what she did.
I think she was expecting big changes in her life if she accepted God into her life and that didn't happen (and I told her it probably wouldn't happen). She is still miserable and lonely and stressed. The only difference I see in her is that now when things come up in her life and I offer to pray - she will tell me what to pray specifically about, so I know she is at least thinking about and accepting prayer. Prior to this, she wouldn't even talk about it - she'd say "I don't believe in that, mom".
I'm not sure what to do now. Again, I truly do believe that she was sincere that night - I'm SURE of it. I continue to pray and when I can bring it up I will say to her (when she's complaining about her life) that she can't expect God to give and give and give without getting something back in return. She just ignores me. Or gets aggravated with me.
Any advice/insight/prayer wouldbe most welcome.
Since then, she has done nothing. Gets upset with me if I mention anything about christianity, church, etc. I gave her a bible - it is untouched on the credenza. She won't talk about that night - when I bring it up she tells me not to make her regret what she did.
I think she was expecting big changes in her life if she accepted God into her life and that didn't happen (and I told her it probably wouldn't happen). She is still miserable and lonely and stressed. The only difference I see in her is that now when things come up in her life and I offer to pray - she will tell me what to pray specifically about, so I know she is at least thinking about and accepting prayer. Prior to this, she wouldn't even talk about it - she'd say "I don't believe in that, mom".
I'm not sure what to do now. Again, I truly do believe that she was sincere that night - I'm SURE of it. I continue to pray and when I can bring it up I will say to her (when she's complaining about her life) that she can't expect God to give and give and give without getting something back in return. She just ignores me. Or gets aggravated with me.
Any advice/insight/prayer wouldbe most welcome.