I've struggled with same-sex attraction towards other females since I was in grade school. I'm pushing 30 now and it's never gone away. Fortunately I've never acted on it. But I haven't been able to get ride of these thoughts.
I feel like I'm making progress. I'll see an atractive woman and acknowledge her beauty but I won't dwell on it. Especially if it's just a random woman I'll either never see again or a woman I barely know.
However I am having an issue with a woman I do know: my boss. When I first met her I thought she was pretty but I wasn't too distracted. Now that I've gotten to know her I've started to develop quite a crush on her. She's just really nice, fun and charismatic. We have similar interests so we always have things to talk about. She's also kind and considerate. I like my other coworkers but most of them are kind of rude and egotistical. I appreciate my boss's demeanor much more.
Anyways I know nothing could or should happen with my boss. I don't want to be attracted to or involved with women since it is not proper Christian behavior. Plus my boss is straight.
Do you have any advice for me? I'm still trying to find a way to shake my same-sex attraction. It's not good when my boss is trying to talk to me and I'm noticing what pretty eyes she has. Interior thoughts I don't make comments back to her. It's alright if I notice a beautiful woman and quickly move on. My problem is now when I get to know someone and develop an attraction on them as a person (not just from looks).
Thanks for your help.
I feel like I'm making progress. I'll see an atractive woman and acknowledge her beauty but I won't dwell on it. Especially if it's just a random woman I'll either never see again or a woman I barely know.
However I am having an issue with a woman I do know: my boss. When I first met her I thought she was pretty but I wasn't too distracted. Now that I've gotten to know her I've started to develop quite a crush on her. She's just really nice, fun and charismatic. We have similar interests so we always have things to talk about. She's also kind and considerate. I like my other coworkers but most of them are kind of rude and egotistical. I appreciate my boss's demeanor much more.
Anyways I know nothing could or should happen with my boss. I don't want to be attracted to or involved with women since it is not proper Christian behavior. Plus my boss is straight.
Do you have any advice for me? I'm still trying to find a way to shake my same-sex attraction. It's not good when my boss is trying to talk to me and I'm noticing what pretty eyes she has. Interior thoughts I don't make comments back to her. It's alright if I notice a beautiful woman and quickly move on. My problem is now when I get to know someone and develop an attraction on them as a person (not just from looks).
Thanks for your help.