where God wills it we are to continue to receive whatever "medicine" (physical infirmities and suffering - see the parable of the rich man and Lazarus) we need from our brief sojourn in this world to be prepared for the unutterable glory we are to partake of in His Kingdom.
So.... suffering is about learning to love? Is that what you're now trying to say? More suffering makes you love more? That goes along the same lines as "more suffering makes you more grateful".
Well, you know what my experience with that has been? I've seen a lot of suffering. I did clean up after the 1991 Gulf War and bore witness to a lot of destruction.
It didn't make me more loving and grateful though. It made me hate everything America represented to the Middle-East because of how unfairly we dealt with those nations. We sanctioned Iraq for the next ten years; letting millions of people starve to death and die of cancer because we were so (allegedly) afraid of "weapons of mass destruction".
Well, the illuminati oligarchs and their lap dog the MSM, were right on one thing. Iraq did have weapons of mass destruction - that was before February 28, 1991 in the 100 days before when we destroyed them all. (The same ones we sold them 5 years earlier - mind you!) Then we all came home with "Gulf War Syndrome" that the government denied for the next 15 years that it even existed? More vets now have died of complications from the stupid syndrome than were killed in the damn war - all to the "thanks of a grateful nation" - Yeah!
So no, it did not make me more "grateful" or "more loving"; it made me more depressed and disillusioned with a country that didn't seem to me to care.
I was harassed by an employee in a Burger's Bagel shop who literally stood there and made fun of me when I told him to stop screaming because I was in a war and the noise bothered me.
Guess what - well that all changed after 9/11 and suddenly there was a whole hale of a lot of people who knew how I felt!
I will say this though. 9/11 gave me a different perspective on the American people than I had before. I'm still not crazy about the government - and if Trump and military intelligence actually manages to take out the deep state - that would be impressive!
So no, I don't buy that suffering makes us more loving any more than I think we suffer for lack of faith.
Love is the greatest gift, and there simply is no Love without suffering.
God is love and God is eternal. He existed in that love long before there was any suffering. So no, I reject "there simply is no love with out suffering" too.
God Loves by being tortured, mocked, lied about, and murdered on the Cross. So even for God in the flesh, Love involves great suffering.
Jesus was not a [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] who loved suffering. He willfully endured being forsaken by the rest of the Godhead and eventually died of having his own Divinity ripped from his existence because He loved the Father; not because there was anything worthy in us.
I'm strongly inclined to accept in faith because of those thing's I've experienced and seen first hand.
Here's another thing I learned from the war. And this aint any different in any war; whether talking Desert Storm, WWII or the "war of religion". Everyone's grandfather and his brother-in-law stormed the beach at Normandy and liberated Dachau. There was a journalist who conducted a little experiment back in early 2000's. He requested anyone who'd participated in D-Day to write him. He got more responses from survivors of D-Day than the number of American service men who actually participated
in D-Day. Now aint that fascinating?
Moral of the story - people lie! If anything has been proven over and over again - that has!
Now you know what goes hand in hand with that? The people who were actually there don't tell heroic war stories about it because it was too traumatizing!
Again, I point back to the people who are obviously and verifiably disabled. Why is it always someone who you can't tell is "disabled" who's had cancer cured? You have any idea how many false positives come back on cancer screenings? Thus the reason for multiple tests.
Joni Erikson-Tada talks about "faith healings" in a book of hers. She went to a "faith healing service" at some giant convention center. There were thousands of people there and she said it was herself and about 30 other people in wheelchairs, who were all put in this one section.
Well all the people who "got healed" were ....... over there----->>>>
And what were they told? You just have to have more faith. If you doubt, it won't happen.
And about 20 minutes before the "event" ended; the "staff" of this "faith healer" started to come and get all the people in this section and roll them out. They lined them all up by the elevator. She said she remembered sitting there, looking around, all these people in wheelchairs looking at each other, all knowing - something here is really wrong - but no one would say anything.
Well, many of the "faith healers" of the 80's and 90's have now been exposed for the frauds that they are. (Back to the point about the war - people lie.)
Find that Church. I would suggest not looking at any church that was formed at any point after Pentecost.
Ehhh.... all churches were formed after Pentecost.
Love cannot be circumscribed by rational intellects. It can only be experienced in the Holy Spirit and wondered at, with unutterable awe.
God is a rational entity. We'd have no laws of physics if God was not rational. Feelings can be deceptive and experiences (both positive and negative) are not always what we perceive them to be.
The Church that Christ built upon the Apostolic confession of faith will be the one that preaches and practices unceasing prayer and fasting and keeps such practices as integral to its Holy Tradition for all times, until Christ's return.
Only problem is the Scripture doesn't tell us to define our faith that way.
2 Timothy 3:
16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
17 That the man of God
may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works.
This passage gets quoted a lot, but note verse 17. "perfect" and "thoroughly furnished". There's a notion that goes around religious groups that have traditions they hold of equal authority to the Scripture. The notion that its tradition and Scripture - well that isn't what the Scripture tells you. These two verses tell you that the Scripture is what makes one perfect and thoroughly furnished.
Now why does the Bible set only itself in this role?
That's to avoid over here in Ephesians 4:14
That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
Make no mistake there are false teachers out there who want to deceive you. Satan wants people to be deceived by religion.
So how do we avoid that?
This brings us to the Bereans in Acts 17:11
These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind,
and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.
They didn't just take what Paul told them because it was "tradition". No, they took what was said against Scripture they had (the OT) as to what they accepted as truth and doctrine and what didn't line up they rejected.
Now even back when the apostles were preaching there was a lot of false doctrines and false beliefs around. The writers of Scripture wrote about that and warned the people to be careful of who they were listening to.
Now Psalm 119:89 tells us the Bible is an external source. It didn't originate on earth. It's "fixed in heaven" and "holy men of old spoke as they were moved by the Holy Ghost." 2 Peter 1:25 This is why we are to "test the spirits". 1 John 4
And how do we know if "a spirit" is telling us the truth or not? Not by traditions, how we feel or our experiences. We test it by what's written in the Scripture alone!
Here's a "free bee" This passage defines what God considers as "fasting".
Isaiah 58:
2 Yet they seek me daily, and delight to know my ways, as a nation that did righteousness, and forsook not the ordinance of their God: they ask of me the ordinances of justice; they take delight in approaching to God.
3 Wherefore have we fasted, say they, and thou seest not? wherefore have we afflicted our soul, and thou takest no knowledge? Behold, in the day of your fast ye find pleasure, and exact all your labours.
4 Behold, ye fast for strife and debate, and to smite with the fist of wickedness: ye shall not fast as ye do this day, to make your voice to be heard on high.
5 Is it such a fast that I have chosen? a day for a man to afflict his soul? is it to bow down his head as a bulrush, and to spread sackcloth and ashes under him? wilt thou call this a fast, and an acceptable day to the Lord?
6 Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke?
7 Is it not to deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out to thy house? when thou seest the naked, that thou cover him; and that thou hide not thyself from thine own flesh?