(((((hugs))))) Crying is so normal, you need to get the grief out of your system, the Lord cares, and has all of our tears in a bottle, He must have a lot of bottles for mine. I know right now it all seems so dreadfully overwhelming, but those feelings will pass, slowly but surely, you will start getting better and that sting won't be so bad. You are in my prayers my friend.I cried today and I feel like I can't cope and I don't see any end to this abysmal feeling
Just disregard the first paragraph - I'm feeling bad again. My dad's inability to cope is probably contagious and it hinders my ability to recover. I'm not saying it's his fault, he's going through hell. He is not taking this well at all. He wants to eventually move out of the house because it's unbearable for him to be here. I kind of wish I had a say in this, but I don't. He thinks I'll find it unbearable too, maybe he's right. I did cry about that pretty bad myself.
OK, I was wondering if it was still alright to talk to the person who had died, so this answers my question.
(((((hugs))))) Hon, it is perfectly normal to cry and cry after the death of a beloved family member or friend. Grief like this does not leave over night, I know I still cry at times over my dear parents and it has been quite a few years since they died (mom 2005, daddy 2012) You loved her, and this has/is a big shock to your system. Your dad is hating where he lives right now because of the loss of his beloved wife, and doesn't want to be near anything that reminds him of her, this will eventually pass, I really think it would be wise to at least wait 6 months, wait for the horrible sting to lift, then, when thinking clearer, then discuss the idea. As to you finding it unbearable, maybe you would, maybe you won't. But again, you both are going to have thoughts all over the place, it is not wise to decide anything or even think about more stress at this time.
((((hugs and love)))
