... And - here's where this discussion starts - even these traditional religions have sometimes tried to outgrow their cultural baggage, particularly within the last two hundred years.
So - how does your particular religion or denomination address the topic of gender? Are women still expected to be housewives and mothers, first and foremost? Can they serve in clerical roles? Are men treated as superior (whether openly or through the traditional "equal but different"-rationalization), or do partners genuinely enjoy equality?
Christianity is based on the Bible. As someone else said, God gave men and women quite different roles and duties in life. It's clear from beginning in the Garden and throughout history women have been submitted to man and he ruled over her. This was God's purpose, Adam ruled over Eve (Gen.3:16).
The obvious argument lies within God's sovereignty, and how his perfect plan has actually unfolded.
What do we see in history?
Men have been the
leaders, rulers of their homes, spiritual leaders as well, the major and minor prophets, the disciples, soldiers, inventors, popes, priests, pastors, builders, hunters and gatherers, etc. If God wanted it any other way, we would see it in history. Maybe some exceptions to the rule existed in certain temporary situations. Women were always our helpers, assistants.
So, women teachers of young children, that's fine. Even Dr. Laura would say that a women cannot teach a boy to be a man! Women pastors over women, fine. Women presidents - NO thank you! Yes, woman can do great things and often excel beyond men in corporations.
The "Women's Lib" movement in our generation has influenced women to leave their place in the home and compete in the world for jobs, striving to be equals with man, sacrificing their roles as mothers. Nurturing children and being a helpmate at home is their best and most valuable occupation and purpose (if marriage and children are involved). Mothers are so valuable to the family as well as fathers, but when either of them are absent, the family suffers in some way.
A very intelligent woman, my girlfriend from long ago, chose to leave me for a journalism career. She got her masters and went all the way to become a Vice President of Fox News. I must mention also that prior to that, she had an abortion - her choice. She didn't want it to interfere with her plans, nor did she want me to either. About eight years later, she wanted to get back with me - I wasn't interested and lost my feelings for her. Later on in life she married a journalist, but was too late in life to have kids. That marriage didn't last. She would have made a great mother, but now she is alone - but hey, she organized the news for us! I think she missed out on the love that you give and receive from a family, from kids that look up to you and call you Mom, kids that are reflections of their parents, kids who teach us so much about ourselves, who teach us how to love unconditionally. She valued a job more than loving relationships.
Some people don't get married and don't have kids. For them, do what you want, but you are missing out on a big part of life. Eunuchs are a special brand of people who can vow celibacy and spend most of their time serving the Lord and others. That is admirable and the world needs people like them, but most of us desire love, marriage and kids.
So in conclusion, look at what functions well in the family. Many would argue that before women got into the workplace in mass numbers, the family was stronger, divorce was lower. Men saw women in the workplace and were tempted, even though they were married and this may have led to more extramarital relationships than before when women stayed home. Devaluing motherhood and fatherhood has led to dysfunctional families, who miss out on the richness that of this close family bond. It's precious and shouldn't be sacrificed.
Finally, on your deathbed, you won't be thinking of all your conquests, achievements, awards, money, or job, you will think of your loved ones, if you have any and then of course, what happens to you now? Life is about relationships - with God and others.