I know the verses about forgiving. But I am not sure what they mean. I need help. I am having trouble finding guidance from the Bible. It appears that Jesus did not have any close personal relationships. I know he loved everyone but he seemed so strong emotionally. But there is this person in my life who is able to destroy me. This most recent time was the worst. I have been absent from this board for a few days trying to gain some sense of control over my feelings. I am not week but I am human. I do love this person. I know that she will come back and say she is sorry and want things to continue on as before. This has happened many times. That used to be something I prayed for ... but now it is what I fear. So my question is... Is it still considered an act of forgiving if you turn away afterwards? Is it OK to hurt someone I love so that she cannot hurt me again and again?
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