So, my husband has been asked to preach a sermon at church. Knowing my mom would be pleased, I called and told her. She got really excited and said she was so proud of my husband, and so proud of me for picking a good Christian man who the pastor thinks is on-base enough to preach a sermon at his church, that this is better than giving her a grandchild. Lots of her friends have grandchildren, but none of them have a son-in-law who has ever preached in church before.
While on the one hand, it kind of sucks that she puts us in the position of feeling that we have to win her approval with the things we do, at least she's finally acknowledging that having grandchildren is not the most important thing in the world. This is a first. I'm actually considering it a bit of a breakthrough in my relationship with her. She has said other things lately too that seem to suggest that she's finally coming to terms with our childfreedom. What a relief.
While on the one hand, it kind of sucks that she puts us in the position of feeling that we have to win her approval with the things we do, at least she's finally acknowledging that having grandchildren is not the most important thing in the world. This is a first. I'm actually considering it a bit of a breakthrough in my relationship with her. She has said other things lately too that seem to suggest that she's finally coming to terms with our childfreedom. What a relief.