One is what he is according to how he sets his own mind not according to how he was passively born.
That is not what King David said.
There is nothing in the context of Acts 2 or Acts 7 that says the people being preached to were totally depraved and/or had the inability to listen and understand what was being preached while still in their lost state. Total depravity/inability would have to be added/assumed into those contexts.
In Acts 7, they did not murder Stephen because they did not understand a word he said, but they "heard"- (comprehend- perceive) Acts 7:54 and were cut to the heart for they did not like what Stephen was saying about them..."Ye stiffnecked and uncircumcised in heart and ears, ye do always resist the Holy Ghost: as your fathers did, so do ye." Resisting the Holy Ghost was a willful, conscience choice and not a passive state they were born into against their will causing them to resist the Holy Ghost.
A good definition for "Total Depravity" has already been given. Why you overlooked it I don't know.
I will say this, however people often hear
total depravity and associate it with the words
utter and/or
complete. Thinking that it means we say are as evil as they can be. A prime example would be Adolph Hitler.
"So the idea of
total in total depravity doesn’t mean that all human beings are as wicked as they can possibly be. It means that the fall was so serious that it affects the whole person. The fallenness that captures and grips our human nature affects our bodies; that’s why we become ill and die."
Source
Now if I may, you also mentioned "inability". What we mean by that man of his own accord, could not come to God.
A man (or woman) can not just one day stop all sin, or even stop sinning and say, "I think I'm going to come to God."
No, scripture agrees on this also:
"Can the Ethiopian change his skin, or the leopard his spots?
then may ye also do good, that are accustomed to do evil." -Jer. 13:23 (KJV)
Where is the work of the Holy Spirit? We have a clear outline of what that is given to us in scripture by Jesus Christ.
"And when he is come, he will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment:" -John 16:8 (KJV)
The word "reprove" above also means "
to convict". Its the job of the Holy Spirit to "convict" man of his sins.
You mentioned Stephen from Acts and the actions of the crowd.
Show me, if you can, the work of the Holy Spirit in convicting the crowd of their sins.
How many times have you had to listen to a song before you actually heard what the song said?
Same thing here, how many times does a sinner go to church and "listen" to what is being preached before they actually "
hear" what is being preached?
Without the work of the Holy Spirit, the crowd was not able, or had the ability to move
towards God.
God is the one who draws. Man don't draw God to him.
Facts are, the Holy Spirit was not working on this crowd, and God was not drawing them.
God Bless
Till all are one.