All4Christ,
In answer to your question, i definitely would not want my wife calling me 'lord', partly because of Christ's teaching in Matthew 23. That would be really weird to me.
in the past, on one of the CF forums, the idea that men shouldn't tell women to submit to their husbands came up, so my comments were colored by that interaction on one of the other subforums.
Paul says if wives have questions to ask their own husbands at home. Men are to be like Jesus who washes the bride with the water of the word. I don't see any area of the Christian life as off limits when a man exhorts his wife. I also do not see any restriction on brothers in the faith exhorting sisters to submit to their own husbands.
Jesus' words in Revelation 2-3 could be interpreted as an example of Jesus encouraging His churches to submit to Him in a number of ways.
Practically, in my marriage the topic of submission doesn't come up all that much. For me personally, the approach of making decisions together and my wife submitting if we reach an impasse (after prayer, etc.) makes more sense. If I were to encourage her to submit in such a situation, i could say something like, "Honey, the Bible tells wives to submit to their husbands. Why don't you go along with me on this." I'd rather just discuss it several times and reach an agreement, pray about it, and wait. If it isn't a pressing decision, it can wait. On rare occasion, I seem to recall my wife saying to do what I thought best and bring up submitting to her husband as a reason. or she'd mention that as her motivation after we made a decision.
In other marriages, decision-making may be more on the man, and I'm not against that. If a 30-year-old hedge fund manager makes financial decisions for the family without consulting his 20-year-old wife, that ma not be such a bad thing. The decision-making process might be different if he's a plumber and she's a 30-year-old CPA.
In answer to your question, i definitely would not want my wife calling me 'lord', partly because of Christ's teaching in Matthew 23. That would be really weird to me.
in the past, on one of the CF forums, the idea that men shouldn't tell women to submit to their husbands came up, so my comments were colored by that interaction on one of the other subforums.
Paul says if wives have questions to ask their own husbands at home. Men are to be like Jesus who washes the bride with the water of the word. I don't see any area of the Christian life as off limits when a man exhorts his wife. I also do not see any restriction on brothers in the faith exhorting sisters to submit to their own husbands.
Jesus' words in Revelation 2-3 could be interpreted as an example of Jesus encouraging His churches to submit to Him in a number of ways.
Practically, in my marriage the topic of submission doesn't come up all that much. For me personally, the approach of making decisions together and my wife submitting if we reach an impasse (after prayer, etc.) makes more sense. If I were to encourage her to submit in such a situation, i could say something like, "Honey, the Bible tells wives to submit to their husbands. Why don't you go along with me on this." I'd rather just discuss it several times and reach an agreement, pray about it, and wait. If it isn't a pressing decision, it can wait. On rare occasion, I seem to recall my wife saying to do what I thought best and bring up submitting to her husband as a reason. or she'd mention that as her motivation after we made a decision.
In other marriages, decision-making may be more on the man, and I'm not against that. If a 30-year-old hedge fund manager makes financial decisions for the family without consulting his 20-year-old wife, that ma not be such a bad thing. The decision-making process might be different if he's a plumber and she's a 30-year-old CPA.
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