- Mar 4, 2005
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Hi,
I have a question that I would like to ask you guys. My pastor is very concerned about the technology within the church and he said that we needed to have our devices locked so that way there would be some form of control over what we do on our devices.
I don't actually think it's any of his business.
Preach about the dangers of the internet/online games/gambling; sure. But he should be able to trust people to make their own decisions and control how much they uses their devices.
I followed along believing it was the right thing to do and that it would prevent temptation and hoping my husband would follow along because he has problems with his device. Well, I started to notice about a year ago that some of my conversations or even things I would talk about to my spouse or someone on the phone was being repeated word for word over the pulpit.
Sounds fishy.
Did you ask the Pastor about it?
It has really started to bother me and make me think something is not right and I am beginning to wonder if my phone could have possibly been tapped?
Trust your instincts.
How could I find this out?
I don't know much about technology, but round here, there are places that will unlock your phone.
My hubby keeps saying it’s God speaking through our pastor.
I doubt that God would reveal details of what's on your phone to the whole congregation.
I believe God does reveal things to pastors and they do have discernment but I don’t think it should be this often and for things that are not concerning.
Exactly.
Like I listened to some tapes called the good old days and it talked about how people lived back when there was no electric and people walked to school and things like that and I was preached to that I wouldn’t really want to live on the old days when there was no electric and that I need to get out of the past and stuff like that.
With that particular example, if the sermon was to the whole congregation, it could be a coincidence, or that something had happened to make you, and the Pastor, think of the past. If so, it spoke to you especially because you had been having the same thoughts. (And it COULD have been God telling you to let go of the past, or whatever.)
If, however, your pastor came to you and said, "whatever you think about today, you wouldn't have wanted to have lived many years ago ..." that is a little more worrying.
The last straw was last Sunday when my pastor called out over the pulpit something I said to my kids when I was upset before church and it floored me again and my husband was there and he said it’s God talking to you.
Sounds more like the Pastor being a nosey whatsit, breaking the data protection act, confidentiality etc.
I don’t want to cause problems within the church
What about the problems the Pastor's causing you?
My pastor took an hour to lock my device and I didn’t see what was done on my device. He did not lock my husband’s device.
That is the most tell tale, and concerning, bit of all.
IF it was important to your pastor that your phone be locked, he should have told you how to lock it/where to go to get it locked and not touched it himself.
I wouldn't have thought it would take an hour to lock a phone.
This sounds like manipulation, spying and, as I said, breaking confidentiality and the data protection act.
Personally I'd say find a new church. If you don't want to/can't because of your family, either get your phone unlocked and get any spyware, or whatever, taken off it, or get a new one.
If your pastor says anything, you'll know that he was using your phone to try to manipulate you. I'm sure there must be someone further up to whom you could report him - it's unethical, possibly illegal and is a dreadful thing for a Pastor to be doing. It's also worrying that he has collared you and not your husband.
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