- May 5, 2012
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I am in an egalitarian marriage, but I have a question for those of you who practice complementarian marriage. I don't want to debate which view is better (I assume we all have our minds made up anyway); I'm just trying to get out of my "bubble" and understand people better. I'm aiming for a polite interdenominational/interfaith discussion. With that said:
I have from time to time heard the idea that the husband should be the spiritual leader in a marriage. For those of you who practice this, what does it entail, in your day-to-day life? Is it that the husband leads prayers and daily devotions for the family? Does he give daily or weekly religious instruction, like a teacher in a school might do? In her personal spiritual life, is it all right for the wife to choose her own daily Bible readings and religious books to read, or does the husband direct those? In theological matters where Christians often disagree (say, infant baptism, or what kind of church government is best, that kind of thing), if the husband and wife hold different views, is the wife expected to conform her opinions to match her husband's, or may they disagree?
Again, I don't want a debate. Maybe my questions are completely wrong ones, and spiritual leadership is something altogether different. As I said, it's a spiritual path that's foreign to me. I just want to explore what this form of spirituality is like for those of you who practice it.
I have from time to time heard the idea that the husband should be the spiritual leader in a marriage. For those of you who practice this, what does it entail, in your day-to-day life? Is it that the husband leads prayers and daily devotions for the family? Does he give daily or weekly religious instruction, like a teacher in a school might do? In her personal spiritual life, is it all right for the wife to choose her own daily Bible readings and religious books to read, or does the husband direct those? In theological matters where Christians often disagree (say, infant baptism, or what kind of church government is best, that kind of thing), if the husband and wife hold different views, is the wife expected to conform her opinions to match her husband's, or may they disagree?
Again, I don't want a debate. Maybe my questions are completely wrong ones, and spiritual leadership is something altogether different. As I said, it's a spiritual path that's foreign to me. I just want to explore what this form of spirituality is like for those of you who practice it.