So two days ago me and a woman I met fell in love. It's love big time and I think of her as a gift of God.
But I want to do this the christian way. We have already decided that we would not jump into bed but that we would date for at least a year or so. We already desire each other a lot, but I really want to do this in God's way. I want her to get to know me deeply so that she will know what she is doing. And I also want to get to know her really well before I really commit myself.
My problem is, due to some bad experience I often have this fear that my girl would abandon me eventually. That I am in love big time and that she will not feel completely the same. I think this is a turn off for a woman to have a man who fears this, but I dunno, I can't help it away completely.
I really really love this girl. We fit together so well. We have the same outlook on life, love family, love nature. She is not a christian yet but she has already said she will become one, and that she will want to go to my church with me every sunday. I was not always a christian either, and the signals I get are really good. This girl is ALWAYS honest with me, even when it's uncomfortable or puts her in a bad light. She is so kind with me.
Can you recommend a good book for christian dating? Have any more advice?
But I want to do this the christian way. We have already decided that we would not jump into bed but that we would date for at least a year or so. We already desire each other a lot, but I really want to do this in God's way. I want her to get to know me deeply so that she will know what she is doing. And I also want to get to know her really well before I really commit myself.
My problem is, due to some bad experience I often have this fear that my girl would abandon me eventually. That I am in love big time and that she will not feel completely the same. I think this is a turn off for a woman to have a man who fears this, but I dunno, I can't help it away completely.
I really really love this girl. We fit together so well. We have the same outlook on life, love family, love nature. She is not a christian yet but she has already said she will become one, and that she will want to go to my church with me every sunday. I was not always a christian either, and the signals I get are really good. This girl is ALWAYS honest with me, even when it's uncomfortable or puts her in a bad light. She is so kind with me.
Can you recommend a good book for christian dating? Have any more advice?