Thank you very much for the reply and for the link to the other post. So let me get you to clarify a few things from your post.
"So we can rightly understand from this that children are ordinarily adopted and welcomed into the kingdom of God through Baptism."
". . . and this gift is ordinarily given to children through Baptism, but also through God’s Word."
Based on my current understanding, I thought that children were always adopted through baptism and that the gift of faith was always given to children in baptism. When you say "ordinarily," what would be a circumstance when this would not be true for children?
"An adult may hear the Gospel and believe, or he may hear the Gospel, be baptised and believe, but a child can receive the Gospel through Baptism and be raised in the faith."
So, if I'm understanding this correctly, baptism does not play precisely the same role in an adult's life as it does for children. Here is how I understand what you're saying about adults: God may use, depending on the situation, the gospel alone to bring someone to saving faith or may use the gospel and baptism. Is this correct? If so, is there an ordinary way this works? Does God ordinarily use baptism to effect faith in an adult, or ordinarily just use the gospel? Why would God just use the gospel alone and not baptism? How would your church, for example, accept that someone had come to faith if he or she had not yet been baptized? Just based on the person confessing he or she had faith? Sorry for all the questions!
Sure, thing! I'd be glad to elaborate.
That Baptism is
ordinarily necessary implies that it is the
ordinary means Christ has instituted for adopting us as His children, and this is the same for adults and children. In other words, it's Mark 16:16:
"Whoever believes and is baptised will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned."
It's good to notice here that (1) Faith and Baptism go together, and so, Baptism is normative for becoming a Christian. This is also emphasised in the Great Commission, where the Church is called to make disciples
and/by baptising them. But at the same time, we also see that (2) a lack of Baptism does not condemn, but only unbelief condemns. And likewise, Baptism apart from faith is of no use, which is to say that Baptism is not a mechanical ritual.
So, anyone who is able to be baptised should receive God's gift of Baptism, but those who for whatever reason are unable to receive it, we take comfort in that our God is not bound by means, but can and does work faith through His Word alone.
God has commanded His Church to baptise in His name, just as He commands us to proclaim the Gospel. But to the one who receives Baptism, the one who receives the Gospel, it is pure grace; a gift. It is not a work we do for ourselves or for God, but something God does for us through His Church. So, we always want to understand Baptism as a gift, because the further away we get from that understanding, the less we understand the function or purpose of Baptism.
It can be helpful to compare Baptism with the Lord's Prayer. That is, when Christ died on the cross and exclaimed
"It is finished!", He paid for all of our sins, past, present, and future. He defeated sin, death, and the devil, and paid for our sins in full, not in part. He is the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world! Yet, even so, He taught us to daily pray:
"Our Father in heaven ... Forgive us our sins ..." Does this mean that His work on the cross was insufficient? Are our sins greater than the person and works of Christ? Did He only die for our original sin, as some teach? Or our past sins only, as others teach? No, to all. This, rather, is God's overflow of grace! To be a child of God means to be forgiven once and for all, and every day. It means we can't escape is love and mercy! We can't escape His forgiveness!
Now, where does He promise to forgive us? He chose us before the foundation of the world, He reconciled us through Christ, and he promises to wash away our sins when we receive Him in faith, when we pray for forgiveness, in Baptism, and in the Eucharist. He pours out His love and grace on us, and comforts us with the Gospel in our ears, and by water, and bread and wine. God be praised!
For comparison's sake, just as we don't say that the Lord's Prayer is a mechanical prayer, or a work that we do to merit forgiveness, or a rite that we invented, or something useful apart from faith, or something we need to check off in order to be saved, or purely a command we follow, or any kind of way around Christ, it is the same with Baptism. Baptism is God's gift for all, and it's the same forgiveness and the same imparting of the Holy Spirit, and we rejoice in it!