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- Dec 5, 2005
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- United States
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- Lutheran
- Marital Status
- Married
- Politics
- US-Libertarian
My husband is 9 years older than me. I pick at him because he was fighting in Grenada when I was in 3rd or 4th grade. It sounds really yucky when put in that light but now I'm 39 and he's 48 and it's not bad at all.
The biggest problem we had in the beginning, and I think this has already been mentioned, was being at different places in life. I was 25 and childless when we married and he was 34 and already had an 11 year old at the time so as far as he was concerned, he was done having children. I wanted 4. We ended up compromising and we have 2 but he was not overly happy about it until our son turned 1 I think. Maybe he just wasn't too into babies, though, because I talked to his ex-wife later and she said he wasn't all that great with his first daughter when she was a baby either but really got into it when she turned about 1 too. *shrugs*
I guess now, we're still kind of at different places. Like I really like to keep busy so I do a lot of things with the kids and with their activities. I'm a leader at AWANA, my daughter's Girl Scout troop, and I assist with my son's Cub Scout den. I'm also the one who goes to all their orchestra concerts and gets them to swimming practice. My husband is just tired all the time. So he doesn't do much of anything except work and then come home and either watch TV or sit at the computer. He doesn't even like to go to church too much any more because he'd rather stay home and sleep. *sigh*
The biggest problem we had in the beginning, and I think this has already been mentioned, was being at different places in life. I was 25 and childless when we married and he was 34 and already had an 11 year old at the time so as far as he was concerned, he was done having children. I wanted 4. We ended up compromising and we have 2 but he was not overly happy about it until our son turned 1 I think. Maybe he just wasn't too into babies, though, because I talked to his ex-wife later and she said he wasn't all that great with his first daughter when she was a baby either but really got into it when she turned about 1 too. *shrugs*
I guess now, we're still kind of at different places. Like I really like to keep busy so I do a lot of things with the kids and with their activities. I'm a leader at AWANA, my daughter's Girl Scout troop, and I assist with my son's Cub Scout den. I'm also the one who goes to all their orchestra concerts and gets them to swimming practice. My husband is just tired all the time. So he doesn't do much of anything except work and then come home and either watch TV or sit at the computer. He doesn't even like to go to church too much any more because he'd rather stay home and sleep. *sigh*
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