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"Someone asked me, ‘Geronda, what is it that most unites husband and wife? ‘ “Gratitude,” I answered. “They love each other for what they give as a gift to one another. The wife offers her husband trust, devotion, obedience. The husband offers his wife assurance and security that he can protect her. The wife is the noble lady of the household, but also the mature servant. The husband is the captain of the household, but also the lowest laborer."
- Saint Paisios the Athonite on Family Life
This is just one quote, among many others, that I have found that support traditional marriage. I'm trying to figure out how a man is supposed to act since gender-roles are becoming non-existent in our society.
My priest once told me that men an women both have love for one another, however, the man loves his wife by "cherishing" her and the woman loves her husband by "respecting" him. The man is the "protector" and the woman is the "nurturer". Since everyone in the United States society (man and woman) has the "protector" as their goal, it seems that being the "nurturer" is "going out of style", and is avoided, in a way.
As Tradition and it's interpretation of Holy Scripture seems to affirm traditional marriage and roles, has anyone thought about this before?
Also, any advice on reading to understand the Orthodox perspective on this deeper would be great too!
- Saint Paisios the Athonite on Family Life
This is just one quote, among many others, that I have found that support traditional marriage. I'm trying to figure out how a man is supposed to act since gender-roles are becoming non-existent in our society.
My priest once told me that men an women both have love for one another, however, the man loves his wife by "cherishing" her and the woman loves her husband by "respecting" him. The man is the "protector" and the woman is the "nurturer". Since everyone in the United States society (man and woman) has the "protector" as their goal, it seems that being the "nurturer" is "going out of style", and is avoided, in a way.
As Tradition and it's interpretation of Holy Scripture seems to affirm traditional marriage and roles, has anyone thought about this before?
Also, any advice on reading to understand the Orthodox perspective on this deeper would be great too!