I have always lived with anxiety because I lived in an abusive household. My father was always working never there to defend us from my brother, the main abuser and my mother who would just stand by. Also my father never supported me in anything, he would only support my sister with study expenses, trips, anything she needed. I was the youngest and was always told by my mother to just wait, and years would go by and nothing happened, no one in my family approached me to help guide me, I just had a generalized education, all of my life I felt perpetually lost, I was ignored, I felt I was in prison, finally at 21 years old I had the opportunity to leave home and I did, I went to another state to study. But it was difficult when I left home to find a place to live, I did everything by myself, it's almost impossible for me to ask for help because I feel like I don't deserve it. Now five years after I left home I've also had no guidance, I've just been trying the best I can to survive, to go to school, my father had an accident and I went home to help him cope for a month and all he did was wish me the best like a stranger does... This week I was diagnosed with lumbar spine trauma, a disk is hurting my nerves which is making my leg go numb due to all of the stress I put in my body to move from a place to another, working too much to pay for my studies and housing. I just feel angry all the time... I could have been great, I could've been an artist, a dancer if only they'd invested some time in me. Now I'm in pain, alone, going to physical therapy after school three times a week to work on the damage to my back and nerves which is irreversible and degenerative and I'm only in my 20's. I just wish I could forgive so that I could lead a better, happier life, but I can't... I feel miserable, I feel like they won... Any advice on coping with these feelings and moving on? thank you