BGallagher
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Missing said:Okay, I'll be the odd man out. I don't agree with pre-nups in general, so my answer would be no. To me it's like saying "well if it doesn't work out, we can always get a divorce" which I have heard many times and I think is 2 strikes against your marriage from the beginning. It displays a lack of committment on some level and a lack of faith in your spouse. If you don't believe your spouse will be fair to you if you ever get a divorce (which you shouldn't be thinking of to begin with as far as I am concerned), then why are you marrying this person? There is obviously trust issues on some level that should be re-examined before you ever say 'I do'. Personally, I have never known anyone who has considered a pre-nup.
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I couldn't agree more with this. I know a couple who don't have a pre-nup, but do have seperate bank accounts and pay for things by splitting it 50/50. To them, it's a way of ensuring if anything goes wrong, I still have something.
As previously stated in the quote, it's a trust issue and if there is any hint of distust in a couple who are not married, they really need to reevaluate thier relationship before saying "I do". I understand that things happen and marriages don't work out, but I feel a lot of times there are resolutions, but it's easier to just give up and get divorced. I feel that our society has become so loose in the concept of marriage / divorce that it's just easier to walk away than to work things out.
By having a pre-nup, it's like saying, not if, BUT WHEN our marriage fails, I'll have something to fall back on and you won't be able to take all of the stuff I had accumulated before we were together.
Also just my 2 measly cents...
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