- Jun 16, 2016
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Hello everyone,
I have OCD where I keep having repetitive thoughts and I can't help it. I was going to therapy up until just recently and will be starting ERP therapy in June to help with my OCD when I get on my husband's insurance. Previously he wouldn't stop talking to one of my best friends who he had gotten close with who is a woman. After politing talking with the both of them about healthy martial boundaries my now former best friend decided to send us both an email where she expressed her guilt and jealousy along with acting very manipulative in the message which this really is a repeat occurrence from months ago. Included in this was telling my husband who has aspbergers (sp?) that it was time for the both of us to tell her go as painful as it is and he became angry with me. At my work previously I actually ran from it to a different department and was later sent back to work at the crisis center with my mentally unstable supervisors who treated me with cruelty along with coworkers who blamed me for thier behavior because they didn't want to deal with thier behavior either. Here is my back story to what I'm going through. Any prayer, godly counsel, Christian advice is highly appreciated. My husband and I will be discussing this with our marriage mentors this Wednesday and I'm very anxious about it all.
I'm honestly struggling right now with ruminating, having flashbacks, and projecting things will happen again.
I keep fearing that things will go downhill again at work. From what I have experienced I can't trust anyone there when it comes to looking for a new youth job. I'm glad that one of my best friends wants to help me to find a city job. I remembered that she tried finding me one before, but then I also love what I do at the teen crisis center, so it was tough since I also wanted to stay there. The tough part about that though was my supervisors and the rest of my coworkers turning on me and blaming me for the main supervisor's angry behavior that we all can't control. I also keep remembering that I can't trust my coworkers. I can't trust the assistant supervisor with telling her that she can just tell me and others no since she misused it and I couldn't handle it either. It really limited my windows of time and energy to do certain chores. I also realized back then that I couldn't trust my husband, former best friend, or myself with telling him about the final conversation that I had with her. He ended up feeling bad and so did I and I doubted which I shouldn't have since it led to more trouble for us all and lead us right back to a similar situation again. I really don't want to face the same issues again, I just can't. It is driving me crazy thinking of these things over and over again and I really wish that these thoughts would just stop. I keep having these thoughts in the morning and they are disrupting my sleep and peace. I wish that I had people and loved ones around me that I can trust.
I have OCD where I keep having repetitive thoughts and I can't help it. I was going to therapy up until just recently and will be starting ERP therapy in June to help with my OCD when I get on my husband's insurance. Previously he wouldn't stop talking to one of my best friends who he had gotten close with who is a woman. After politing talking with the both of them about healthy martial boundaries my now former best friend decided to send us both an email where she expressed her guilt and jealousy along with acting very manipulative in the message which this really is a repeat occurrence from months ago. Included in this was telling my husband who has aspbergers (sp?) that it was time for the both of us to tell her go as painful as it is and he became angry with me. At my work previously I actually ran from it to a different department and was later sent back to work at the crisis center with my mentally unstable supervisors who treated me with cruelty along with coworkers who blamed me for thier behavior because they didn't want to deal with thier behavior either. Here is my back story to what I'm going through. Any prayer, godly counsel, Christian advice is highly appreciated. My husband and I will be discussing this with our marriage mentors this Wednesday and I'm very anxious about it all.
I'm honestly struggling right now with ruminating, having flashbacks, and projecting things will happen again.
I keep fearing that things will go downhill again at work. From what I have experienced I can't trust anyone there when it comes to looking for a new youth job. I'm glad that one of my best friends wants to help me to find a city job. I remembered that she tried finding me one before, but then I also love what I do at the teen crisis center, so it was tough since I also wanted to stay there. The tough part about that though was my supervisors and the rest of my coworkers turning on me and blaming me for the main supervisor's angry behavior that we all can't control. I also keep remembering that I can't trust my coworkers. I can't trust the assistant supervisor with telling her that she can just tell me and others no since she misused it and I couldn't handle it either. It really limited my windows of time and energy to do certain chores. I also realized back then that I couldn't trust my husband, former best friend, or myself with telling him about the final conversation that I had with her. He ended up feeling bad and so did I and I doubted which I shouldn't have since it led to more trouble for us all and lead us right back to a similar situation again. I really don't want to face the same issues again, I just can't. It is driving me crazy thinking of these things over and over again and I really wish that these thoughts would just stop. I keep having these thoughts in the morning and they are disrupting my sleep and peace. I wish that I had people and loved ones around me that I can trust.