Pray for me Brothers and Sisters. I am so ready to give up my faith.
every day since I started focusing my life on god has been utter confusion, depression, and torture.
I have so many doctorinal questions, it seems there is so many contradictions, so many regrets and fears. I try not to sin, but in doing so I become fixated and obsessive. It seems like all I am allowed to do is sit in a dark room and think of nothing. I was taught all my life that faith was enough, and that we will never be able to reach god's perfect standard, but then after we believe and are saved paul, james, and the other apostles say something along the lines of "the sexually immoral wont enter heaven." This isnt an isolated incident. The new testament is just as full of fire and brimstone. we once again have to live up to a standard, but who can meet it? If its a sin to look at a woman with lust, then who can be saved? To feel angry is to murder also. Who can be saved?
This leads into a whole new theological issue, namely that it seems impossible that anything can get done! Paul can state that marriage is good as is bearing children, but how am I supposed to court a woman to the point of marriage without feeling even a tiny bit of lust? How am I supposed to lead or teach others if Pride is forbidden? If everything is a sin how can anything god honoring get done? Sin must be good if that is the case.
The only solace I have found was in the doctorine of "everything is permissible" but everyone seems to be in agreement that this is untrue.
I will let nobody claim that I am not trying hard enough. I feel like I have tested everything and come out wanting. Even when it caused me despair I held fast to something that I have at times thought was killing me. Nothing would be a greater relief for me than for someone to call me a fool and correct me
I have asked for signs and miracles. and understanding that god doesnt work like that. I have tried legalism, total freedom. waiting for god to act, acting of my own initiative. Thinking about sin more and sin less. more devotion to god, shrinking away from god.
The only doctorine that ever set well with me was christian liberty, but it seems recently like its false.
What is going on with me?
every day since I started focusing my life on god has been utter confusion, depression, and torture.
I have so many doctorinal questions, it seems there is so many contradictions, so many regrets and fears. I try not to sin, but in doing so I become fixated and obsessive. It seems like all I am allowed to do is sit in a dark room and think of nothing. I was taught all my life that faith was enough, and that we will never be able to reach god's perfect standard, but then after we believe and are saved paul, james, and the other apostles say something along the lines of "the sexually immoral wont enter heaven." This isnt an isolated incident. The new testament is just as full of fire and brimstone. we once again have to live up to a standard, but who can meet it? If its a sin to look at a woman with lust, then who can be saved? To feel angry is to murder also. Who can be saved?
This leads into a whole new theological issue, namely that it seems impossible that anything can get done! Paul can state that marriage is good as is bearing children, but how am I supposed to court a woman to the point of marriage without feeling even a tiny bit of lust? How am I supposed to lead or teach others if Pride is forbidden? If everything is a sin how can anything god honoring get done? Sin must be good if that is the case.
The only solace I have found was in the doctorine of "everything is permissible" but everyone seems to be in agreement that this is untrue.
I will let nobody claim that I am not trying hard enough. I feel like I have tested everything and come out wanting. Even when it caused me despair I held fast to something that I have at times thought was killing me. Nothing would be a greater relief for me than for someone to call me a fool and correct me
I have asked for signs and miracles. and understanding that god doesnt work like that. I have tried legalism, total freedom. waiting for god to act, acting of my own initiative. Thinking about sin more and sin less. more devotion to god, shrinking away from god.
The only doctorine that ever set well with me was christian liberty, but it seems recently like its false.
What is going on with me?