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That is the Marxist element. Everything in Marxist thought is a form of power.I'm not seeing a Marxist element here.
Everything in the wheel is a form of power.
About this: the Bible has a plot....a story....and it's not really an answer to everything. What the Bible *does* say about how we treat others (and how God treats us), though, are things like this:we do need to be careful when we are thinking about adopting philosophies that other have been "clearly laid out" for us by others. And I think both Jesus and His Apostles would say the same.............................
I could see revising the title of that section, though I don't have a good alternative title in my head at the moment. Something like "Acting Like You Have Authority Over Your Spouse", but that's not very concise. I have seen wives treating their husbands like servants, and that is a destructive use of power, just like the reverse.Shouldn't the one section actually read Using Male/Female privilege? with the addition of the following.
I could see revising the title of that section, though I don't have a good alternative title in my head at the moment. Something like "Acting Like You Have Authority Over Your Spouse", but that's not very concise. I have seen wives treating their husbands like servants, and that is a destructive use of power, just like the reverse.
I meant that a wife treating a husband as a servant is bad, and a husband treating a wife as a servant is also bad. I agree that in a marriage, neither spouse should be treating the other as a servant.It is not the reverse it is the same power of manipulation for those that wish to manipulate others. Some people seem to think you are either a manipulator or the manipulated and if they see themselves as the former they wish to continue the status quo to be but if they see themselves as the latter they wish to flip the situation rather than just end the manipulation. They do not seem to realize that one can decide to be neither.
I think you're going to have to elaborate on how [you believe] God resorted to many of these social measures. That does seem to be where the mainstream church gets hung up on how they respond to relational abuses (believing it's "God's way").
...your citing to us what isn't in the graphic is to align your initial intuitions about its content with what I've already said. And thus we also notice that nowhere in the Wheel is God a centerpiece; see the problem? It's kind of like the Universal Declaration of Human Rights in which there is NO theologically authoritative ethical foundation that prevents a reflexive application by its protagonists to inhibit Christians from, say, opening their mouths prophetically and calling "sin" what it is.I'm not seeing a Marxist element here.
Everything in the wheel is a form of power. It's not an exhaustive list of the forms of power -- you can only fit so much into a single graphic -- but it's a good beginning.
There are some situations in which the exercise of power and control is appropriate, and in those contexts, some of the items on the wheel could be legitimately used, for the benefit of the person being controlled and for the benefit of the larger society. "Making and/or carrying out threats to do something to hurt her/him" is a standard government exercise of power: Steal a car, and you'll be imprisoned. Run a red light, and you'll pay a fine. "Controlling what she/he does", within reasonable limits, is power exercised by parents over their toddler children who cannot yet make good choices of their own. God, as creator of the universe, legitimately exercises power over God's creation. Note also that some items on the list are uses of power that are never appropriate.
The kinds of power listed in the wheel are not appropriate in an egalitarian marriage relationship. These uses of power would violate the trust that exists in an egalitarian relationship.
How much power is appropriate in a hierarchical/"complementarian" marriage, I'll have to leave to the folks who approve of hierarchical marriages. Some of the items listed under "male privilege" and "economic abuse" are standard components of a hierarchical marriage. I myself would never want to enter into a hierarchical marriage, exactly because I would not want to be on the receiving end of any of the kinds of power listed in the wheel in an intimate relationship.
It really depends upon how a person looks at all that (in the bigger picture). Personally, I only see that vengeance as being for a specific time frame - and I believe the purpose was to demonstrate a contrast between a system of "do wrong - get punished" and His grace/restoration through genuine love.Shall we start at the beginning and work ourselves all the way to the end of Scripture in order to see that God has applied "vengeance" upon His adversaries at various times and in various ways. Nah. That would be a bit tedious if we did so, and any Christian who has actually read the Bible from cover to cover already knows that what I'm saying is true
As I said above.....it's important that we have an accurate understanding as to what that even means to "emulate Christ" (I've seen some horrible examples of people that claim to be -and I believe they're being sincere- acting "like Christ" and even have the support of many others).we the Church are to seek for peace, reconciliation, love, grace, compassion, mercy, and holiness while we all do our best to emulate Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Well.....power is one-sided, so that's probably why the wheel is that way.The problem with the wheel is that it is .... one sided. Simply adhering to a principle of "do no harm" isn't enough to actually move us ethically onto the level of Jesus and within the state of God's Holiness.
What do you mean by "semantic abuses" ? Can you give an example where 'good rules of conduct' are used to inhibit people from doing the things they should be doing? I'm just not sure what you have on your mind here.2PhiloVoid said:....it also doesn't prevent semantic abuses where seemingly 'good rules of conduct' are used to inhibit people from doing things they should be doing ..
This is an egalitarian forum.....so that's what we are in support of. Equality means just that - no one person holds power over the other.let's just be careful that we're not simply replacing one questionable idea, like Patriarchy, with another questionable idea, like Matriarchy.
Since this is the Egalitarian Christians forum, I was assuming that marriage (and other romantic partnerships) was the context for the graphic.
I absolutely agree that's the appropriate definition of "egalitarian", and I wonder if there should either be an amendment to the SOP for this forum (it focuses on men/women).....or some sort of title change. I don't believe it was a goal to discuss other imbalances (like economic/racial/social).....but I don't see why not.Actually, the term 'egalitarian' applies to much, much more than just social tensions between men and women; it also refers to the defining and activation of civil and human rights between diverse groups involving social and economic class, and ethnicity, among other things. So, "Egalitarian Christianity" SHOULD be about bringing social parity between people of all kinds, and not just between men and women, husbands and wives, etc.
Of course, I realize that we have the Liberal Christians section, but some of the same underlying philosophical and social critique could be levied at it as well.
I absolutely agree that's the appropriate definition of "egalitarian", and I wonder if there should either be an amendment to the SOP for this forum (it focuses on men/women).....or some sort of title change. I don't believe it was a goal to discuss other imbalances (like economic/racial/social).....but I don't see why not.
I meant that a wife treating a husband as a servant is bad, and a husband treating a wife as a servant is also bad. I agree that in a marriage, neither spouse should be treating the other as a servant.
I also agree with your observation about how "some people seem to think you are either a manipulator or the manipulated". I've seen this hiding as an assumption in some people's writing on marriage: "Well, somebody has to be in charge, so here are some reasons why it's the man..." As you say, it's an important moment of enlightenment to realize that we can set aside power hierarchies altogether, that relationships can exist without one person being in charge of the other.