- Aug 31, 2017
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I was exposed to inappropriate content in the 4th grade. Since then I have perused it by whatever means I could. I'm 38. I grew up around computers. In the late 80's I used to play games on BBS's. For the uninitiated BBS's were an early form of what the internet is now. A person would run software on their home computer and host a Bulletin Board Software. Another person would dial in to that system via land lines and be able to access that computer software. There were games, rudimentary forums, but all of this is like calling a local number. It was all hosted by an individual. Back in the day, there were no cell phones. You had to use a land line to call someone. So my computer (via a modem) would call another computer and the two would connect. Then I had access to the BBS on that computer. I'd spend my time playing trade wars or other games but then I discovered the file sharing. Whatever was hosted on the computer I was connecting to I could access. Before I was in my teens, before the internet was a thing, I was downloading inappropriate content from my community via local land lines.
Let's stop...the means aren't important. The effect is...
"Run from sexual immorality! Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the fornicator sins against his own body." -1Cor 6:18 CJB
I never understood this verse until after I got married.
I got married at 30. I was a virgin, however my mind had already been programmed since childhood...
Honestly, I just signed up to this forum. I am looking for help, but I'm also willing to tell my story. I'm screwed up but now I know what 1Cor 6:18 is about. In the age of the internet I know it is so easy to access inappropriate content. I need to do something to counsel boys, young men against it. inappropriate content physically changes your brain. It programs your "Ideal Woman" That ideal isn't true.
I have not had sex with my wife in over a year because she does not fit my brain's "Ideal". I simply can't become aroused with her...I will say, this is my own problem, not hers. I'm the broken one, not her. She is broken by this because she is my wife.
Run from sexual immorality! In our culture, we mature sexually sooner than we marry. This creates a sexual void that young men fill with inappropriate contentography. That inappropriate content has ample time to program the minds of young men. They are left with an unrealistic lie of what the "Ideal Woman" should be. Then they marry a real woman. Man, I'm broken.
What is the cure for a broken mind?
-Broken one.
Let's stop...the means aren't important. The effect is...
"Run from sexual immorality! Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the fornicator sins against his own body." -1Cor 6:18 CJB
I never understood this verse until after I got married.
I got married at 30. I was a virgin, however my mind had already been programmed since childhood...
Honestly, I just signed up to this forum. I am looking for help, but I'm also willing to tell my story. I'm screwed up but now I know what 1Cor 6:18 is about. In the age of the internet I know it is so easy to access inappropriate content. I need to do something to counsel boys, young men against it. inappropriate content physically changes your brain. It programs your "Ideal Woman" That ideal isn't true.
I have not had sex with my wife in over a year because she does not fit my brain's "Ideal". I simply can't become aroused with her...I will say, this is my own problem, not hers. I'm the broken one, not her. She is broken by this because she is my wife.
Run from sexual immorality! In our culture, we mature sexually sooner than we marry. This creates a sexual void that young men fill with inappropriate contentography. That inappropriate content has ample time to program the minds of young men. They are left with an unrealistic lie of what the "Ideal Woman" should be. Then they marry a real woman. Man, I'm broken.
What is the cure for a broken mind?
-Broken one.