Hello,
We are a family of four: us the couple, my 13-year old son and my wife's 16-year old sister. My sister-in-law is living with us in the city for almost two years now to finish her senior high school since there was no senior high in their rural area.
Everything is normal until last month. I accidentally caught my son masturbating in the shower - he didn't locked the door so I thought there was no one inside. I just let it pass and didn't confront him about it. We also didn't discuss about sex education with him up to now because we feel like we need to wait around when he's 16 or so.
These past two weeks, my sister-in-law rarely or doesn't sleep at night to finish answering her learning modules. She sleep around 8:00 in the morning before we go to work.
Yesterday, our office needs to be disinfected so I came home early at around 11:30 AM. When I arrived at home, I was shocked what I saw and can't explain the feelings.
My sister-in-law was sleeping in the couch while my son is abusing her. I saw in my own eyes that my son is putting his private part on my sister-in-law's lips (seems he's rubbing it) while touching her upper private parts. Because of disbelief, I feel like I'm frozen and was only able to mention his name.
When I call his name, he walks away and a second later my sis wakes-up. I feel like my sis saw my son's private part because of the time the moment she wakes up. Until now, I still didn't talk about it with my son.
I don't know what to do now... Who should I talked to first? What are the things that I need to tell them? What are the other things that I need to do?
Please, I really really need help regarding this matter. Please help me and my son.
Thanks in advance.
We are a family of four: us the couple, my 13-year old son and my wife's 16-year old sister. My sister-in-law is living with us in the city for almost two years now to finish her senior high school since there was no senior high in their rural area.
Everything is normal until last month. I accidentally caught my son masturbating in the shower - he didn't locked the door so I thought there was no one inside. I just let it pass and didn't confront him about it. We also didn't discuss about sex education with him up to now because we feel like we need to wait around when he's 16 or so.
These past two weeks, my sister-in-law rarely or doesn't sleep at night to finish answering her learning modules. She sleep around 8:00 in the morning before we go to work.
Yesterday, our office needs to be disinfected so I came home early at around 11:30 AM. When I arrived at home, I was shocked what I saw and can't explain the feelings.
My sister-in-law was sleeping in the couch while my son is abusing her. I saw in my own eyes that my son is putting his private part on my sister-in-law's lips (seems he's rubbing it) while touching her upper private parts. Because of disbelief, I feel like I'm frozen and was only able to mention his name.
When I call his name, he walks away and a second later my sis wakes-up. I feel like my sis saw my son's private part because of the time the moment she wakes up. Until now, I still didn't talk about it with my son.
I don't know what to do now... Who should I talked to first? What are the things that I need to tell them? What are the other things that I need to do?
Please, I really really need help regarding this matter. Please help me and my son.
Thanks in advance.