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My question is: Which denominations are known for being philosophical, i.e. the services are more like expositions than testimonials, and the focus is on education and enlightenment rather than (just) community?
Background to the question:
I have lived my whole life without religion and have long felt that something important was missing. The feeling has ebbed and flowed, but in the past few years I've felt it more intensely and I have sought out friends and associates who are practicing Christians or members of other faiths to talk with them about what they believe, and what their faith and practice means for them.
After talking with them, I attended church services with a friend of mine, a very bright and kind lady who is passionate about her faith in Christ. To make a long story short: I found the services tedious and unconvincing. There were a lot of boring and (I felt) trivial testimonials from people about how the lord had touched their lives, and some folksy banter from the pastor, who seemed more interested in getting chuckles than in educating or enlightening the congregation. It all felt shallow and really insulting to anyone's intelligence.
I was grateful for the welcoming nature of the congregation, but frankly I was disappointed by the service. I'm hoping to join a church where people are focused on ideas and where each service gives us food for thought, and would be appreciative of anyone who can share their experience and/or suggestions.
Background to the question:
I have lived my whole life without religion and have long felt that something important was missing. The feeling has ebbed and flowed, but in the past few years I've felt it more intensely and I have sought out friends and associates who are practicing Christians or members of other faiths to talk with them about what they believe, and what their faith and practice means for them.
After talking with them, I attended church services with a friend of mine, a very bright and kind lady who is passionate about her faith in Christ. To make a long story short: I found the services tedious and unconvincing. There were a lot of boring and (I felt) trivial testimonials from people about how the lord had touched their lives, and some folksy banter from the pastor, who seemed more interested in getting chuckles than in educating or enlightening the congregation. It all felt shallow and really insulting to anyone's intelligence.
I was grateful for the welcoming nature of the congregation, but frankly I was disappointed by the service. I'm hoping to join a church where people are focused on ideas and where each service gives us food for thought, and would be appreciative of anyone who can share their experience and/or suggestions.
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