I just randomly started thinking about a brief conversation I had with Mr. Paulie079 not long ago (started here) and I figured I just start a new thread on a closely related issue.
I'll be as brief as possible; check the link for more detail. I've never had many friends, and even those few I have I only get to see in person maybe half-a-dozen times a year if I'm lucky. Needless to say, I'm more comfortable with books than I am with people.* I started college this past September and is the first time I've spent signaicant with anyone other than family since Jan. 2010 (jobs I worked for those two and a half years were with family members).
No one was ever interested in talking to me in high school, so I figured that college would be the same. And to my surprise, I was exactly right. All of that stuff my parents and counselor told me about how college would be different than high school was completely wrong.
My question then is what's going on? I know I'm a fairly boring person and most wouldn't want to talk to me for long any way, but there seems to be something about me that signals to others that I'm weird. I don't know what it could be, since my family and counselor keep saying there's nothing wrong with me, but, as I stated above, they don't always know what they're talking about. I guess it could be the four My Little Pony shirts that I own and wear frequently.
*I know I read someone who said that one time. I keep thinking that it was Erasmus, but I can't find the exact quote. The closest was when he said how he spends his money on books first, then on clothes and food.
I'll be as brief as possible; check the link for more detail. I've never had many friends, and even those few I have I only get to see in person maybe half-a-dozen times a year if I'm lucky. Needless to say, I'm more comfortable with books than I am with people.* I started college this past September and is the first time I've spent signaicant with anyone other than family since Jan. 2010 (jobs I worked for those two and a half years were with family members).
No one was ever interested in talking to me in high school, so I figured that college would be the same. And to my surprise, I was exactly right. All of that stuff my parents and counselor told me about how college would be different than high school was completely wrong.
My question then is what's going on? I know I'm a fairly boring person and most wouldn't want to talk to me for long any way, but there seems to be something about me that signals to others that I'm weird. I don't know what it could be, since my family and counselor keep saying there's nothing wrong with me, but, as I stated above, they don't always know what they're talking about. I guess it could be the four My Little Pony shirts that I own and wear frequently.
*I know I read someone who said that one time. I keep thinking that it was Erasmus, but I can't find the exact quote. The closest was when he said how he spends his money on books first, then on clothes and food.