I'm getting there beechy.
I am not saying that males have had it harder. In fact, I don't know how one would even begin to quantify such a thing. What I am saying is that one of the great social ills of humanity, patriarchy as practiced by fallen human beings, has it's roots in the curse expressed by God in the garden. If you don't believe it, just look at how one parameter of the curse, "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you", has been twisted into a command by error filled humans. The problem with Genesis 3:16 and 17 as applied by humans in error is that they assume it is God's design. Nothing could be further from the truth. God's design is exactly opposite. The curse is God's prediction of how we will live in our sinful flesh. How true has that become! God calls us to turn toward Him for direction on how to live our lives. When we do that, we defeat the curse because we return to the Godly design.
Part of that design is that the male is accountable. Do you really want that job? Of course, God could have gone to Adam and Eve each in order and asked the questions. But I really don't think He did because such an accountability paradigm still leads to chaos. In the end, the buck has to stop with one person. God chose it to be the male. I am not about to question His wisdom and perfection.
It has nothing to do with task "x" in the marriage or decision "y". Husband and wife are equal when it comes to the day to day operation of the family. Each contributes in the areas that they are gifted. That is how it was in the garden before sin entered the picture. It is only after the fall, in the curse that befell us, that this idea of gender roles entered the picture. Again, this is not God's design but the consequences of Adam's sin in not interceding and being accountable. Eve does not get off scot free, of course. But it is clear in the narrative that the fundimental, curse resulting sin was Adam's.
But isn't that what you've been arguing in favor of this whole time? That man's role is the leader/head of the family, and that woman's role is as "copilot"? And that man bears the primary responsibility for the family's welfare?
I'm really confounded now.
...and also
Are you saying men have had a harder time throughout history than women? I beg to differ.
I am not saying that males have had it harder. In fact, I don't know how one would even begin to quantify such a thing. What I am saying is that one of the great social ills of humanity, patriarchy as practiced by fallen human beings, has it's roots in the curse expressed by God in the garden. If you don't believe it, just look at how one parameter of the curse, "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you", has been twisted into a command by error filled humans. The problem with Genesis 3:16 and 17 as applied by humans in error is that they assume it is God's design. Nothing could be further from the truth. God's design is exactly opposite. The curse is God's prediction of how we will live in our sinful flesh. How true has that become! God calls us to turn toward Him for direction on how to live our lives. When we do that, we defeat the curse because we return to the Godly design.
Part of that design is that the male is accountable. Do you really want that job? Of course, God could have gone to Adam and Eve each in order and asked the questions. But I really don't think He did because such an accountability paradigm still leads to chaos. In the end, the buck has to stop with one person. God chose it to be the male. I am not about to question His wisdom and perfection.
It has nothing to do with task "x" in the marriage or decision "y". Husband and wife are equal when it comes to the day to day operation of the family. Each contributes in the areas that they are gifted. That is how it was in the garden before sin entered the picture. It is only after the fall, in the curse that befell us, that this idea of gender roles entered the picture. Again, this is not God's design but the consequences of Adam's sin in not interceding and being accountable. Eve does not get off scot free, of course. But it is clear in the narrative that the fundimental, curse resulting sin was Adam's.
God is unconcerned with cultural paradigms when He writes the truth. It is not unjust in God's design and that is fine with me. Incidentally, if the Adam and Eve story were written to coincide with the culture of the time, it would have reflected a true authoritarian and gender divided relationship. The garden story, pre-fall, is one of equality. As I mentioned above, don't make the common mistake of interpreting the curse as being a command. It shows us how we will be because of sin, not how God wants us to be.StarJewel said:ok.... well, I don't believe that God demands something that unjust. God is supposed to be just, after all. I think that the Adam and Eve story was written that way because the culture then was patriarchal.
Upvote
0