No, I don't. I don't even think a man should take a pastorate position without the full consent and approval of his wife. I don't think God would call a man to the pastorate without letting the wife know, too. I know of several men that became pastors without the approval and support of their wives and I can honestly say that they are all failures as pastors.
God will not bless a pastorate of a man that doesn't accept his wife's counsel on such a life-altering event. It's not just the man's life that is changed by accepting a pastor position, it's the whole family and no man should be making important decisions like that without his wife's agreement.
I agree with your thoughts, however with the situtation being discussed God did not ordain either one. The only ones God ordains to pastor are the Elders. When they are recognised and appointed to that position there won't be any of these problems, if the Church goes strictly by the qualifications when appointing a Elder to the office of Bishop. It has been said that not just the husband, but wife also goes with the apointment for there are requirments for her also.
