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How do you deal with overly friendly children? I have no desire to hurt them or even offend them, but sometimes there is that one kid or even several kids that are super friendly. You have sites that talk about how to protect your children, which is a good site. There are predators out there, but I am not one of them, however they don't know that, and I have to protect myself from any kind of accusations.
I am usually a loner due to social anxiety, not because I hate people. I go to school and then I come home and do my homework. My neighbors have quite of few kids, and I don't think they have been taught not to talk to strangers. When you talk to me, I am very nice and friendly. But I am very anxious.
Some of the kids are so overly friendly. If they see me carrying a bag of groceries, they always want to help. And I am very disabled. I get vertigo, and just carrying one bag of groceries can be very difficult because I need to use both hands to hold on to something when I walk up the stairs. I sometimes get one of those kids, and it usually is a boy, who wants to carry my groceries up the stairs for me. I try to decline, but stuff falls out of my grocery bags (not all the time, but every once in a while) and then he helps me anyways. This causes a lot of anxiety. I don't know his parents. I don't know if his parents are gonna come at me with a baseball bat.
But this is not the only thing. When I wait for the bus, I get this 5 year old boy (not all the time, but every once in a while) who will strike up a conversation with me. I think he is very lonely, and it makes me sad if he doesn't have friends. But I don't think he should be striking up a conversation with a 38 year old man who is basically a stranger, not just for his protection but for mine as well. I just don't have the balls to tell him not to talk to me, for I feel very sorry for him. Part of me wants to talk to his mom and just tell her what is going on. I know his mom. The last thing I need is some parent coming at me with a baseball bat because they see their kid talking to me. I will not be able to run without falling and stumbling for I have vertigo.
What would be the right thing to do in these situations?
I have asked these questions before, but people haven't been helpful.
I am usually a loner due to social anxiety, not because I hate people. I go to school and then I come home and do my homework. My neighbors have quite of few kids, and I don't think they have been taught not to talk to strangers. When you talk to me, I am very nice and friendly. But I am very anxious.
Some of the kids are so overly friendly. If they see me carrying a bag of groceries, they always want to help. And I am very disabled. I get vertigo, and just carrying one bag of groceries can be very difficult because I need to use both hands to hold on to something when I walk up the stairs. I sometimes get one of those kids, and it usually is a boy, who wants to carry my groceries up the stairs for me. I try to decline, but stuff falls out of my grocery bags (not all the time, but every once in a while) and then he helps me anyways. This causes a lot of anxiety. I don't know his parents. I don't know if his parents are gonna come at me with a baseball bat.
But this is not the only thing. When I wait for the bus, I get this 5 year old boy (not all the time, but every once in a while) who will strike up a conversation with me. I think he is very lonely, and it makes me sad if he doesn't have friends. But I don't think he should be striking up a conversation with a 38 year old man who is basically a stranger, not just for his protection but for mine as well. I just don't have the balls to tell him not to talk to me, for I feel very sorry for him. Part of me wants to talk to his mom and just tell her what is going on. I know his mom. The last thing I need is some parent coming at me with a baseball bat because they see their kid talking to me. I will not be able to run without falling and stumbling for I have vertigo.
What would be the right thing to do in these situations?
I have asked these questions before, but people haven't been helpful.