Over protective husband?

[LinkH]

Not at all , you are his wife, he cares for you, if you are on a beach yes you can wear, if that time, he says no then he is controlling. Clothes must be worn according to the environment and situation , this is always a smart trick.

Her own husband doesn't have a right to tell her what or what not to wear, but you, some stranger on the Internet who isn't really a part of their relationship does?

 

[HannahT]

Her own husband doesn't have a right to tell her what or what not to wear, but you, some stranger on the Internet who isn't really a part of their relationship does?

(snickers) No one has the right to. Everyone can offer up an opinion or viewpoint.

 

[98cwitr]

One of my cousins was angry her boyfriend would not allow her to wear a bikini in the yard. My relatives told her to leave her boyfriend, she should wear what she wants. My husband in the other hand said they were wrong, wearing a bikini in public asks for trouble and I am not allowed to do that.

So is my husband controlling? I said today I wanted to walk somewhere tomorrow to save bus fare and he said "no! Will be too hot!" And I used to go birdwatching in the park alone all the time and my husband has so thoroughly drilled it in my head that is dangerous now I can't even bring myself to!

Is this a problem?

Nope...he's simply expressing his opinion. I asked my wife to also not wear revealing clothing in the front yard, but back yard and public pools are okay. It's a question though, not a command. She complied, because she sees my point. It's simply just that.