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A thread I just posted in another area of the forum got me thinking. How does the way you were raised differ from the way your DH/DW was raised?
For the most part Mr Burger and I were raised on opposite ends of the spectrum.
He was raised in a very conservative Christian home (PK- sereved on the mission field in Uganda etc.) Was not allowed to listen to secular music (classica was fine, but jazz was boarderline). He was taught never to question anything.
I on the other hand was listening to Led Zeppelin whilst still in the womb (pictures are proof- my mom's belly wrapped in gigantic headphones- my dad wanted to make sure I was properly educated on good music... and I was), was taught to question EVERYTHING and generally was encouraged to express myself artistically (painting, drawing, playing the flute etc.).
But it's funny to me- both our families are christian, both are in the same general social class etc.
It always makes me think about how two people, or two families can be so different but still manage to marry and be extremely happy- now DH has changed drastically and we are now the spawn of satan to his family (yes, we watch R rated movies, drink alcohol, play poker etc.).
So if you are dramatically different then your spouce's family- how do you fit in? Because I'm finding it difficult to fit in with his entire family- Thankgiving weekend (ala Wadeapalooza 06) is turning out to be a nightmare for me, as they have planned a 4 day weekend family fun time- including apples to apples, puzzles, gingerbread houses AND G rated movies
A thread I just posted in another area of the forum got me thinking. How does the way you were raised differ from the way your DH/DW was raised?
For the most part Mr Burger and I were raised on opposite ends of the spectrum.
He was raised in a very conservative Christian home (PK- sereved on the mission field in Uganda etc.) Was not allowed to listen to secular music (classica was fine, but jazz was boarderline). He was taught never to question anything.
I on the other hand was listening to Led Zeppelin whilst still in the womb (pictures are proof- my mom's belly wrapped in gigantic headphones- my dad wanted to make sure I was properly educated on good music... and I was), was taught to question EVERYTHING and generally was encouraged to express myself artistically (painting, drawing, playing the flute etc.).
But it's funny to me- both our families are christian, both are in the same general social class etc.
It always makes me think about how two people, or two families can be so different but still manage to marry and be extremely happy- now DH has changed drastically and we are now the spawn of satan to his family (yes, we watch R rated movies, drink alcohol, play poker etc.).
So if you are dramatically different then your spouce's family- how do you fit in? Because I'm finding it difficult to fit in with his entire family- Thankgiving weekend (ala Wadeapalooza 06) is turning out to be a nightmare for me, as they have planned a 4 day weekend family fun time- including apples to apples, puzzles, gingerbread houses AND G rated movies