So I asked for some guidance on this issue because it is so easy for me to fall into my Roman Catholic programming around trying to discern whether or not I am able to receive communion based on my last confession, sins I've committed since then, etc. The answer I got from my priest was pretty amazing to me, and I'm still processing it, so please share your thoughts too.
He told me that 1. there is no direct relationship in general - you come to confession regularly, at least four times a year, or as often as things begin to weigh on you. The idea that we have to confess before every communion would imply that having received communion we immediately need to go to confession, which is obviously not the case. 2. Unless you have been specifically told otherwise, if you're confessing regularly, you receive communion at every liturgy. However, if you do abstain from communion, *that* needs to be confessed right away, before you receive again, because we are directly commanded to draw near and didn't.
Anyway, all I can say at this moment is, wow... but please guys, share your thoughts on this. Help me process.
He told me that 1. there is no direct relationship in general - you come to confession regularly, at least four times a year, or as often as things begin to weigh on you. The idea that we have to confess before every communion would imply that having received communion we immediately need to go to confession, which is obviously not the case. 2. Unless you have been specifically told otherwise, if you're confessing regularly, you receive communion at every liturgy. However, if you do abstain from communion, *that* needs to be confessed right away, before you receive again, because we are directly commanded to draw near and didn't.
Anyway, all I can say at this moment is, wow... but please guys, share your thoughts on this. Help me process.