NothingIsImpossible
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Some people are beyond stubborn. Including my dad. He literately has almost worked him self to death. After years of telling him he needed to go out on disability, he finally did. Only because the company happen to be closing. Because of his stubbornness to avoid the doc, to work hard, to ignore rules (that protect his body) hes had endless health issues. Hes got calcium (bone) spikes growing off his bones. Hes got tons of metal implant in his body. Neck, arm, leg, hip, chest...surgeries. His work was limited as it was. Now the doc says they have to work on more of his spine but odds are he will be stuck in a wheel chair forever if they do. Its so frustrating because he could have avoided all this.
This is why with my wife I can be VERY pushy about her health and hard work ethic. Its fine to want to work hard, but if you work yourself into a grave and your only 30, that means I am a widow early on. Work but remember you have a spouse that wants to grow old with you. A few weeks ago I got so frustrated with her about a serious problem with her teeth (that can kill you if untreated) that I said something along the lines of "Just go back to your country if you don't want to take care of yourself and die." Obviously she forgave me for that but stubborn people are so hard to deal with.
You both are still in my prayers! Though I often forget who to pray for. >.<
This is why with my wife I can be VERY pushy about her health and hard work ethic. Its fine to want to work hard, but if you work yourself into a grave and your only 30, that means I am a widow early on. Work but remember you have a spouse that wants to grow old with you. A few weeks ago I got so frustrated with her about a serious problem with her teeth (that can kill you if untreated) that I said something along the lines of "Just go back to your country if you don't want to take care of yourself and die." Obviously she forgave me for that but stubborn people are so hard to deal with.
You both are still in my prayers! Though I often forget who to pray for. >.<
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