Hello!
I’m new here, but I see several people struggling with similar things as me. I’ve dealt with OCD tendencies my entire life. I didn’t know it was OCD for years and years (probably close to 15 years). It always seems to attack what I love the most. As a kid, it attacked the relationship I had with my mom. In the past, I obsessed over being fearful I was a lesbian (now I know I’m not and it was an obsession). Being older, it has seemed to attack my relationship with God and my faith. in college, I was totally distraught that I thought I had Blasphemed the Holy Spirit and I was terrified. My prayer was “God I know you can’t forgive me for this, but I’m sorry anyways.” It was awful. Now I’m dating someone I love so, so much. Hey He’s growing in his faith daily. But I feel like God is beating me over the head demanding I break up with him. I’ve always struggled with being obsessive over decision making (even if the options are two good things and neither choice is bad). I’ve dated people in the past who I knew the chemistry simply wasn’t there and i had small thoughts of “well what if this is what God wants.” Now that I’m in a relationship I’m passionate about, I just feel so fearful day in and day out that God is demanding I end it. I would hate to disobey because i love God. But I would hate to end something that’s been great. There has been not one shed of wise counsel who believes that there is any biblical reason to break up. But i can’t seem to shake the feeling. I search for reassurance constantly. I have searched for hundreds of articles about God’s voice or OCD or consequences of disobeying, and I feel paralyzed and am harming the relationship that has so much potential to be amazing if I could let this go. But i love God and want to obey. Can anyone help with this??
I’m new here, but I see several people struggling with similar things as me. I’ve dealt with OCD tendencies my entire life. I didn’t know it was OCD for years and years (probably close to 15 years). It always seems to attack what I love the most. As a kid, it attacked the relationship I had with my mom. In the past, I obsessed over being fearful I was a lesbian (now I know I’m not and it was an obsession). Being older, it has seemed to attack my relationship with God and my faith. in college, I was totally distraught that I thought I had Blasphemed the Holy Spirit and I was terrified. My prayer was “God I know you can’t forgive me for this, but I’m sorry anyways.” It was awful. Now I’m dating someone I love so, so much. Hey He’s growing in his faith daily. But I feel like God is beating me over the head demanding I break up with him. I’ve always struggled with being obsessive over decision making (even if the options are two good things and neither choice is bad). I’ve dated people in the past who I knew the chemistry simply wasn’t there and i had small thoughts of “well what if this is what God wants.” Now that I’m in a relationship I’m passionate about, I just feel so fearful day in and day out that God is demanding I end it. I would hate to disobey because i love God. But I would hate to end something that’s been great. There has been not one shed of wise counsel who believes that there is any biblical reason to break up. But i can’t seem to shake the feeling. I search for reassurance constantly. I have searched for hundreds of articles about God’s voice or OCD or consequences of disobeying, and I feel paralyzed and am harming the relationship that has so much potential to be amazing if I could let this go. But i love God and want to obey. Can anyone help with this??