Hello!
There is a section in the Men's section for help: https://www.christianforums.com/forums/inappropriate contentography-addiction-support.214/
I pulled out an old post of mine about fighting the addiction. I hope it helps!
"Before you start reading, God knows your heart and wants to equip you for warfare. He knows it won't come over night, and he is far more forgiving than you might believe. If you hang in there with him, he will teach you how to fight. You can have freedom that comes by Christ alone.
Battle and Process
The battle with lust is that, literally a battle with your flesh. Right now it has a serious upper hand over you, but the good news is that you have Jesus in your corner. I wanted to break free from my inappropriate content addiction so bad, but the Lord told me it was a process. It was going to take lot time, prayer, forgiveness, learning God's Word, and many mistakes.
Mistakes, or falling into sin IS going to happen. Guilt will overwhelm you, and feel horrible and distant from God from it. 'I knew better', 'I shouldn't have done it' will bombard you. The Lord doesn't expect perfection from us, instead he is with us as we learn to grow and how to fight. Picking yourself back up, asking for forgiveness, and asking God to show you how the enemy got you. That it is the process that will lead you to victory. Learning from your mistakes.
Perspective
First thing the Lord tackled with me was to really sit down and see sex through his eyes, how he originally designed to be. The world corrupted something that was meant to be a joy between a man and woman who are of one flesh. Selfishness makes you want get everything you can out of it for self. Where the Lord teaches selflessness. To become like a servant and serving your spouse rather than self serving. How much more enjoyable would a marriage be, if both husband and wife served each other rather than themselves in bed?
Fears
Other thing was mixing God's presence and sex. Human nature doesn't want one to do with the other, but wither you like it or not, God knows everything. There is no where you can run to truly be out of his sight. Better to realize that you need his help in this area.
When the devil drops that big advertisement with half naked girl in your face, which is flaring off the senses. You don't hide yourself, but that is when you CRY OUT for his presence and for His help! The Lord ALWAYS gives us a way out of temptation, but it's hard to get to that place where you realize you NEED his help AT that moment.
Cost
Also know sometimes this battle will come with a cost.
Matthew 5
29 If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.
If your internet connection continues to lead into sin, have to remove it. If your computer continues to lead into sin, then time to remove it as well. If hanging out with friends that like to go to bars or any other places that lead you into sin, you have to prayerfully decide if those relationships you should continue to have.
I literally had to get rid of my computer and internet. I used my parent's computer when I needed to get online. That was just how bad my situation was.
Holy Anger
Lastly, anger has to rise from within. You can't destroy something you don't hate. You won't fight the good fight, if you don't hate your enemy.
Numbers 25
"3 So Israel was joined to Baal of Peor, and the anger of the Lord was aroused against Israel.
6 And indeed, one of the children of Israel came and presented to his brethren a Midianite woman in the sight of Moses and in the sight of all the congregation of the children of Israel, who were weeping at the door of the tabernacle of meeting. 7 Now when Phinehas the son of Eleazar, the son of Aaron the priest, saw it, he rose from among the congregation and took a javelin in his hand; 8 and he went after the man of Israel into the tent and thrust both of them through, the man of Israel, and the woman through her body. So the plague was stopped among the children of Israel."
The whole congregation just heard from God about his anger to this problem. Just as he done speaking to them, it happens right before them all. Now Phinehas didn't ask for permission or what to do. His anger and passion for the Lord God was aroused. He didn't think, but responded to the problem with fierceness. I use this scripture to describe that anger, that fierceness that you will need to fight your enemy.
Now I am not saying anything you do alone in your OWN strength will work. If you CRY OUT to the Lord, with that fierce and fervent spirit, the Lord will give you victory. By the name of Jesus, and power of the Holy Spirit, you will be able to stand up to temptation, and at some point be able to lead the charge against strong holds of lust."
