Endeavourer
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Sometimes it takes many years to get past this, and in many cases marriages even if the decision is to stay together never fully recover, but most can get to where you can trust the person ENOUGH, that you can still enjoy life together.
It is possible to have a wonderful marriage, post affair. In a marriage, a glorious present helps us forget about a miserable past.
If your wife chooses to reconcile, you owe her just compensation, which is:
a) establish extraordinary precautions so that an affair can never happen again, and
b) provide the foundation for a mutual relationship of extraordinary care to each other.
The checklist I gave you is a start for extraordinary precautions.
Here is a link which describes how to set a foundation for extraordinary care:
Love Busters (Marriage Builders®, Inc.)
Click into the links for each behavior at the bottom.
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