- May 23, 2018
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I’d like advice from LCMS Lutherans on this, please.
My wife and I joined a LCMS church in our town a few years ago. I was just taken aback with Confessional Lutheranism and knew it was where I belonged. I grew up, and met my wife in an EPC Presbyterian church. My wife agreed to join when I felt that’s where we were meant to be.
Fast forward a few years. We now have 2 children and my wife wants to go back to the Presbyterian church where we met. It’s a fine church, preaches the Word, does a lot of stuff in the community and globally. It’s a large church, has activities for children where our lcms church is lacking somewhat in that area. My wife thinks some doctrinal points (mainly Bapstism, Holy Communion) aren’t as important as just having faith. I’m on the other end of that spectrum.
I LOVE being Lutheran and I’ve been attending the Presbyterian church of late due to stricter COVID safety measures, but it just feels lacking.
Ive explained the sacraments and everything else to my wife and she just won’t budge on it. Anyone have any advice on how to handle this situation? I don’t want to be a 2-church family because that sends the wrong message to our kids, but there are certain points of doctrine that are just too important. I’m trying to work through this with my wife and don’t want to be a selfish, self-centered person. Thank you in advance for any advice/guidance.
My wife and I joined a LCMS church in our town a few years ago. I was just taken aback with Confessional Lutheranism and knew it was where I belonged. I grew up, and met my wife in an EPC Presbyterian church. My wife agreed to join when I felt that’s where we were meant to be.
Fast forward a few years. We now have 2 children and my wife wants to go back to the Presbyterian church where we met. It’s a fine church, preaches the Word, does a lot of stuff in the community and globally. It’s a large church, has activities for children where our lcms church is lacking somewhat in that area. My wife thinks some doctrinal points (mainly Bapstism, Holy Communion) aren’t as important as just having faith. I’m on the other end of that spectrum.
I LOVE being Lutheran and I’ve been attending the Presbyterian church of late due to stricter COVID safety measures, but it just feels lacking.
Ive explained the sacraments and everything else to my wife and she just won’t budge on it. Anyone have any advice on how to handle this situation? I don’t want to be a 2-church family because that sends the wrong message to our kids, but there are certain points of doctrine that are just too important. I’m trying to work through this with my wife and don’t want to be a selfish, self-centered person. Thank you in advance for any advice/guidance.