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thanks for advice, regret my hastiness in putting up my personal problems.
thanks for advice, regret my hastiness in putting up my personal problems.
My husband and I have been married for 8 years, we have two young children. We met while working in full time christian ministry and are a cross-cultural couple. After three years of being married we were unable to keep going in ministry work and moved to my country. Since then my husband has been unable to hold down any job for any length of time. Either he hurts himself or he quits because he feels he is being disrepected (an important cultural value for him). I have been working to keep the family going. Last month he got a job, a really good one. I left my job thinking 'yes, this is it, I can finally stay home with the kids'. He quit yesterday because he was 'being disrepected'. I want to be the good wife and support him but I really feel like I can't take this anymore. I do love him but he just can't fit into the work environment here. We have no money to go to his country or money for visas so that is not an option for us. My parents have been financially supporting us over this past 5 years but I feel so embarrassed about it. I am starting to consider seperation but I know this would tear the kids up. Our pastor is also getting rather sick of the situation. What should I do?