- Jan 26, 2021
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I have recently been really trying to strengthen my relationship with God and live for him daily, in my decisions, walk, talk, etc. My sisters decided to book a weekend getaway with my mom in a wine country type resort for the weekend for my mom's birthday with us and a couple of her friends. It's pretty much a given that there will be drinking involved. My mom has always struggled with drinking (at one point went to rehab but it it didn't stick) And she's pretty much in denial about the whole thing. She really got the grace message and missed the obedience message I feel like - and it's been that way our whole lives. My whole family basically lives quoting the bible, going to church, etc and kind of doing what they want otherwise. I soooo want to re-write this story for myself and for my little girls. Back to the problem - her drinking has escalated lately, she posts really offensive and political posts on face book that don't make much sense, and I know not to call or talk to her past 6 or she'll be slurring her words. I am not sure I feel comfortable going to this weekend retreat and I know I can't pretend like everything is ok; and in other sense isn't it kind of like condoning the behavior? I am praying about it but no true clarity yet. I guess I'm just looking for some advice since I know christian living will result in having to find other things to do w/ our time, and possibly confronting other's behavior that I'm not comfortable with. Or do I not confront it and just go and be an example? LOL Help!!