chaz345
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IMO....if the reason a person in trying to change behavior is b/c of external reasons (another person doesn't like it..etc)...then, that changes will be gradual and sporatic (or behavior hidden).
If it is for internal reasons (like hating to be ruled by something that only creates misery)...then IMO...it will be sudden and the person won't want to go back (as long as, like Laurentia described) the person remembers from where they came & keeps a honest look at that...not like the Israelites, when they began to remember only the good things of Egypt and forgot the bad.
I disagree, based on my experience and the experience of other guys I've walked through this with. It takes time to give up something that you've grown accustomed to depending on, especially when what you are replacing it with isn't visible.
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