The thing is, Sam, what YOU think grieves God isn't necessarily what does. Like I said before, I think somebody deliberately trying to make somebody else stumble is doing wrong. Somebody wearing popular swim wear at the beach and pool, no, of course I don't think that causes God to grieve. I think the folks who stumble that easily need to take some personal accountability. If you become overwhelmed with temptation by seeing a lady in a bikini or a man in a Speedo, and you go to the beach, a public pool, or a swim meet, that is 100% on you. That's self-righteous arrogance, expecting the rest of the world to cater to your weakness, instead of being strong enough to avoid what causes you to stumble.